Just Putting This Here To Say That I Believe In Trasnandrophobia. If You Think Trans Men Have It "easy"

just putting this here to say that I believe in trasnandrophobia. If you think trans men have it "easy" or have more privileges than other trans people (or even more privileges than cis women??) then stay the fuck away from me. If you think trans men don't struggle, that we pass easily and get by without experiencing any transphobia then stay away. I don't want you here if you downplay the issues trans men face and act as if they're privileged

Also I don't agree with misandry or radical feminism, we understand the anger but hating all men is not the solution. It's just as bad as when men hate all women. It judges people based off their gender. Not to mention trans men, disabled men, black men, ect. Not every man is rich and powerful, not every man is benefited by the system

I also don't agree with using afab / amab as a binary, not do I agree with TME Vs TMA labels. It's all just repackaged binary shit, forcing people into boxes, assuming their experiences. I don't believe misogyny can be "misdirected", and even if it is I don't believe that suddenly means it doesn't affect the person targeted.

((Though I do agree afab and amab terms can be helpful in the medical sense that can also fall apart after transition and intersex people would be different even if labeled afab or amab by doctors))

I felt I needed to post this because I've seen a lot of hate towards trans men and just men in general as well as a lot of TME Vs TMA stuff lately and I hate it. So yeah

I can say as someone from California, it seems like Ben took a lot of inspiration from specifically San Fransisco for California's personality

I live in the central valley (grew up in Stanislaus County though I no longer live there), people around where I live act more like if New York, Colorado and Texas all somehow had some strange love child

I moved to california a few years ago, no one acts like him here, the blonde surfer stereotype is more accurate

that might be affected by the area you live in, I suppose, but I don't live in california so you probably know more than me. I will say, though, that the idea of a blonde surfer cali is hilarious (/pos)

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Cringe culture is unfortunately not dead but we can kill it in major spaces if we all keep being ourselves authentically and unapologetically. What they call "cringe" is actually pretty punk. It's defiance. Keep being yourselves, you're ALLOWED to exist as you are.

"headspace isn't an actual physical place-" well like duh??? it's literally called HEADspace. INNERworld. Ofc it isn't an actual physical pl- oh, you meant that headspace isn't real at all? And that people can't say stuff like "we can't find someone in the innerworld and we're scared"? Oh no. I'm hitting you with my car.

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This blog is for Palestine and stopping the genocide.

These are people getting killed. If you support Israel, get away from the blog.

I have not commented on this before, but I will now. We stand for Palestine. We stand for the innocent lives that don’t need to be forgotten.

I won’t post much regarding it because seeing photos is gruesome and can upset people, but if you are able to, please donate to vetted fundraisers. Share if you can. Daily clicks.

I don’t post about it because it also makes me triggered and I hate that it does because I want to share those things, but someone can’t help out if they’re triggered by the media they see much.

And yes this post is added with tw. Because some people aren’t in the mindset to see it. And that’s OKAY.

Do not demonize others for not being able to witness something. It will do you no good.