DID Is So Fun Because I Don't Know If My Thoughts And Feelings Are Mine Or Someone Else's Or Are A Mix

DID is so fun because I don't know if my thoughts and feelings are mine or someone else's or are a mix of mine and someone else's or are because of trauma and have no real reason or someone else is fronting entirely and we don't realize and it's their thoughts and feelings that I'm assuming are mine and I have no idea what I think or feel about anything because I don't know how to tell my actual thoughts and feelings

Just because your comfort character is in a system doesn’t mean you can treat them like that without consent.

My partner system and I both have communicated consent between fictives. If we see someone as a comfort then with their consent we are allowed to ask for them.

(Both of our systems have good communication and can typically switch easily and without pain, of course it isn’t always easy and neither of us get mad or upset about it. We are both lucky to have good communication systemwide and remember all systems are different.)

Communication is key and remember no is a final answer. “Maybe” or “I don’t know” does not mean yes.

-ENDOS/TULPAS DNI. NO SYSCOURSE.-

that moment when you have no idea who you are or who is here so you go to simply plural and do a role call

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do you have a comfort video essay youtuber or are you neurotypical

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using a headmate as target practice is Wonderful stress relief, by the by. highly recommend. - 🎶 (Jonny)

“Cringe culture is dead” isn’t about letting 15 year olds cosplay MHA. It’s about letting 50 year olds dance at clubs even if they’re “bad at it”, it’s about letting 10 year old’s wear random bits of clothes to make an outfit that’s “weird”, it’s about letting adult men experiment with artsy makeup looks even when they’re “messy”, it’s about letting teens scream music even if they “sound bad”.

“Cringe culture is dead” means letting people learn new hobbies at any age, experiment with their identity at any time, expressing themselves in ways outside the norm just as much as it means let 20 year olds play roblox. 

Cringe culture is just social norms being forced on people rebelling against societies value consensus, it’s keeping people in brackets that are easier to market to. 

Let cringe culture be dead in every aspect of life outside online spaces.