Unfriendly Reminder That While You're Busy Mourning The Loss Of Your Childs Old Gender, Claiming You

Unfriendly reminder that while you're busy mourning the loss of your childs old gender, claiming you need to mourn the death of your son/daughter, there's a group of boys/girls/enbies scrambling to take your kid clothes shopping, snatching up the chance to take those "first" experiences from you forever. Your sons first fishing trip is gonna be with his best bros, your daughters first makeover is going to be with her girl friends, your kids first camping trip out as themselves is gonna be with the besties. Good luck getting those bonding experiences back. While you're busy trying to guilt-trip your kid with your weird manufactured parental trauma, there's a whole community ready to take your place as the better family.

Your loss, someone elses gain.

Here's a key part of the transfemme experience that is very overlooked: when you don't pass, people don't actually see you as a man, or treat you like a man.

Feel like wildly uninformed men are trying to get into your uterus? The “Mythcrashers” are here to sort fact from fiction

atleast it's raining here

I changed my mind. India is hot. Why is it 33 C in October!

Courtney Demone is a trans woman currently undergoing hormone replacement therapy and, as such, is starting to grow breasts.

Given this opportunity, she has a found a brilliant way to #FreeTheNipple.

Demone is launching the hashtag #DoIHaveBoobsNow and will post topless images of herself on Facebook and Instagram, “until those networks decide that my breasts have developed enough to be sexualized and worthy of censorship”

Demone is exposing privilege and hypocrisy all at one.

Notes thing: proofs will be given for everything that's in red in a link when the goal for it is complete. (Checkmark emoji for completed goals ✅)

Infinite Notes allowed per person. Go Insane.

20 notes ✅ Notable: @violet-hady

I will make a list of 20 songs which I enjoy the most and link it here. ✅

50 notes ✅ Notable: @violet-hady

I will take a bath, wash my hair and use my facewash. ✅

100 notes ✅

I will make actual notes for my next therapy appointment. (Done!)

150 notes ✅ Notable: @busycryingoverthemarauders DAMN.

I will write a short body horror story about my childhood.

1k notes

I will never be internally transphobic or misogynistic online, ever. No matter if it's ironically or unironically. I will learn a habit to block anyone who is trying to speak for my experience as a female person, intersex person and trans person.

1.5k notes

I will never sit in darkness in my room again.

2k notes

I will finish my zine (personal story magazine) called "My Guardians taught me alot" and post it online as well as give it to my therapist (He gave me that homework but told me that I can wave it off)

3k notes

I will start exercising daily.

4k notes

I'll reveal my Cluster B antisocial symptoms to my trauma therapist along with revealing my whole online conflicts along with dangerous behaviours in the past, so that we are able to make healthy habits and help me develop healthy social behavior.

5k notes

I will save up ₹3000 in the upcoming two months to buy a secret pamper item for myself which I can't go to my parents for. (For currency conversion, ₹3000 are 100 medium Dorito bags.)