I Understand That My Friends Dont Wanna Talk Every Day. I Understand That My S/o Doesnt Wanna Be Lovey

i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions. all people need rest in general! it’s okay!! it doesn’t mean they don’t love me!! it’s not a judgement or punishment!! they deserve to take their rest, and they deserve for me to treat their needs with respect!

You are not betraying anyone by wanting to change your name, never. Your parents might be attached to it for some reasons, but in the end, you are the one dealing with it everyday and you should absolutely be able to change it if that is what feels best to you.

Look at you!! what a cutie!!

6 Reminders For Bad Times

You are allowed to take up space, you’re human.

You are allowed to have a voice.

You are allowed to leave whenever you feel unsafe or uncomfortable.

You deserve more than someone who doesn’t know how to respect you.

You are allowed to put your own needs first.

You are allowed to love yourself.

I’m constantly torn between “if it’s meant to be, it will be” and “if you want it, go and get it.”

You are a precious child, don’t ever doubt it!

You are talented, smart and awesome! Capable of anything!

The future has great things for you, do not give up!

I believe in you! You are doing it so good!