Sounds Like The Kind Of Body I'm Trying To Work Up To!

Sounds like the kind of body I'm trying to work up to!

What is your idea of a dadbod?

I see a great variation of body types and sizes referred to as a dadbod.

I’m curious as to what everyone thinks a dadbod really is. So fire away with your thoughts. Obviously there is no one correct answer. But just to get the discussion rolling, here is my take on the subject.

A dadbod is sort of the more mature equivalent to the Freshman Fifteen although is probably more in the 20-25 pounds gained range.

The ideal dadbod belongs to a good looking guy who has been fit through youth and a fair amount of exercise. You can still see the formerly fit body with respectable musculature only now he has a desk job and his main form of exercise is an occasional round of golf which involves more beer/alcohol consumption than anything cardio.

He’s aware that his 32 waist pants have slowly morphed into 36s. He’s somewhat concerned about the weight he has put on and tries to monitor it. He knows that he doesn’t weigh 165 anymore but was still surprised to weigh 189 at his last doctor’s visit and to hear the doctor say (while gently poking his fat roll) “Whoa, you’re pushing 190 real hard, you trying to get to 200? Cause that will push your BMI from overweight for your height into the obese range.”

He says that he watches what he eats but he doesn’t count that morning treat when someone has brought goodies in to the office. Likewise the three cookies from Subway where he went for a healthy lunch or the Snickers he impulsively grabbed when paying for gas on the way home. He didn’t think twice about taking seconds at dinner or that bedtime snack after a hard evening of watching tv and reviewing math homework.

In the bathroom before bed he looks at his reflection and sees not just one but now two fat rolls as a small second one has now appeared under his softer chest and balances out his wider, rounder butt.

He’s concerned but he’s not beached whale obese. Actually he’s sexy af and lucky for him, his partner who is waiting for him to come to bed thinks so too, anxious to play with his belly grab onto a love handle and have sex with the world’s cutest dadbod.

Keep the teasing playful, tho, please! Not into being humiliated, just lightly teased. My gaining goals are modest (<50 lbs, dadbod or ex-jock status). I'm 5'4" and 195 lbs; stocky build with a bit of a starter gut. I'll definitely take any encouragement I can get!

Reblog if you’re a gainer who welcomes anonymous teasing and encouragement!

“A man without a belly is like a house without furniture”

— A Lebanese/ Syrian  Proverb (via thefatzone)

My Gaining Aspirations (As of Right Now)

I've been aware of my male weight gain fetish since I was about 11 years old. And it's evolved a lot over the years. It started with me just stuffing pillows under my shirt to make my belly look big. I then turned to reading male weight gain stories online. I really enjoyed the stories in which magic weight gain was involved, and either the main (male) character got fat or they caused other male characters to gain weight (usually uncontrollably or without the victim noticing, with a bit of mind control or hypnosis, maybe). I really got pleasure from the thought of other men gaining weight. Maybe as a sort of revenge...? I've experimented with gaining weight myself off and on, but I didn't do it very seriously until a couple of years ago. Up until that point, the target of weight gain was usually other guys. But now, I've grown (no pun intended) more comfortable with the idea of gaining weight myself, and have started to embrace it. I think nowadays, I'm particularly turned on by male weight gain that happens as a result of environmental factors (e.g. a romantic relationship with a good cook, hanging out with other male gainers/big eaters). So, my fantasies these days usually involve those themes. I still read male weight gain fiction, but I think my tastes have developed a bit more now. As far as fantasies go, I like magically-induced weight gain, mind control weight gain, etc., but on a more realistic level, I also enjoy reading about gradual weight gain via romantic relationships with a great cook or via the platonic influence of other guys who have hearty appetites. I don't aspire to be morbidly obese, and don't find obesity in other men to be very fun. I shy away from words like "massive", "engorged", etc. I appreciate more modest gaining, words like "hefty", "beefy", "well-fed", etc. I want my girlfriend/wife to lightly tease me and call me "big boy/guy", "chubby hubby", "hungry man", etc. The tropes in my fantasies involve me working at some "blue collar", stereotypically "masculine" job, being around other men who like to eat a lot, and having that rub off on me so I end up fattening up along with my male co-workers. But my relationship with those co-workers would be as friends, not as lovers. I enjoy cooking, and would love to be with a woman who shared that hobby. I think I've decided that whatever weight gain that happens due to cooking and eating fine meals doesn't bother me all that much. I'll just let it happen. My weight goal is to be around 225 lbs or so, no more than 250 lbs. I care about proper nutrition while gaining. Fast food all the time isn't gonna get me to the place I want to be. I just want to have a noticeable dadbod/ex-jock look. I'll build muscle at the gym, but also be thick. I want to be strong and firm as well as fat, not flabby. I don't want to be one of those people who needs to be extracted from of their house with a crane.

YAAASSS!!! Loved the scene when her parents pigged out!

Who else remembers this scene from spirited away? No face was my favorite because of these scenes 😍😍🐷🐷. Reblog if you remember this growing up.

Feederism Q&A (chose 10 Qs to ask me)

For everybody:

1. Are you a: gainer, encourager, mutual gainer or all of the above? 2. Sexuality? 3. Are you on grommr, fantasy feeder or feabie? 4. What made you start a gaining tumblr? 5. Tumblr crushes? 6. Best gaining and FA blogs on tumblr? 7. Are you in a relationship? If yes is it a feederism relationship?   8. What did you think about your “urges” before you discovered that gaining was a thing (we’ve all been there) 9. What do you like most about this community? 10. What do you hate most about this community? 11. What is your earliest memory about this scene? 12. What is your weirdest memory about this scene?

For gainers:

13. Are you now or have you been actively gaining before? 14. How long have you been actively gaining? 15. What is your current weight? 16. What are you current measurements? 17. What size clothes you’re wearing? 18. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 19. When it comes to relationships you prefer: a thin encourager, a fat encourager or another gainer? 20. When it comes to encouragers do you prefer: forceful, pushy, teasing, handsy, romantic, submissive, good cook? (multiple options are permitted) 21. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you gaining wishes? 22. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 23. Being fed by another person or nom by yourself? 24. Eating while fucking (or being fucked)? 25. Forcefeeding? 26. Being teased? 27. Being humiliated? 28. Being worshipped? 29. Bossing around an “obliging” encourager? 30. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 31. Your biggest fantasy gaining wise? 32. Your most intense fantasy gaining wise? Would you like to go for it IRL? 33. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 34. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your gaining lifestyle? 35. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

For Encouragers:

36. Are you now or have you been actively encouraging anybody before? 37. For how long? 38. What is your goal in gaining (physically)? 39. When it comes to relationships you prefer: an already obese person, a new gainer or it doesn’t matter? 40. When it comes to gainers do you prefer: Dominant, shameless, proud, submissive, romantic, a lifter or shy? (multiple options are permitted) 41. Would you consider fattening up an unsuspecting partner who’s not into gaining? 42. Would you consider gaining for your partner? 43. Would you date a civilian? If so would you tell him about you feederism wishes? 44. Have you had casual feeding sessions? Would you like to (or more)? 45. Feeding someone or let him nom by himself? 46. Feeding while fucking (or being fucked)? 47. Forcefeeding? 48. Teasing a fatty? 49. Humiliating a fatty? 50. Worshipping a fatty? 51. Serving a bossy gainer? 52. Are you: Dominant, submissive, switch or doesn’t apply? 53. Your biggest fantasy that related to feederism? 54. Your most intense fantasy related to feederism? Would you like to go for it IRL? 55. What is something you think you did right when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 56. What is something you think you did wrong when it comes to your feederism lifestyle? 57. Describe your perfect partner in 3 to 5 sentences.

Reblog if you want your followers to ask you these questions.

Use the #feederismQnA so we could all see and read