Big-sis - Your Aggressively Wholesome Older Sister

It goes without saying that this goes for partners as well as friends and family.

Friends aren’t supposed to:

Make you doubt yourself

Boss you around

Make you anxious when you’re around them

Try to make you jealous

Lie to you or lie about you

Talk bad about you behind your back

Tell you what to wear

Steal your stuff

Tell your secrets to others

Embarrass you

Make you cry

Hurt you in any way (mentally and/or physically)

If you have a ‘friend’ like this, please end that relationship. I know what it’s like to have someone treat you this way. You’ll feel so much better when you get rid of that toxicity.

🌸 shout out to trans kids who are just now discovering their identities 🌸

🌸 shout out to trans boys who are saving up for their first binder 🌸

🌸 shout out to trans girls still learning to apply makeup 🌸

🌸 shout out to closeted trans kids 🌸

🌸 shout out to trans kids who don’t want to transition 🌸

🌸 shout out to trans kids w/ disabilities 🌸

🌸 shout out to trans kids of color 🌸

🌸 shout out to trans kids who can’t afford to transition 🌸

🌸 shout out to mentally ill trans kids 🌸

Y'all are so beautiful and strong. Your identities are valid and no one can take that away from you! I love you!

make sure you’re exercising patience, not only with others but with yourself also!

I cannot stress enough how important it is to speak up for yourself when someone is crossing your boundaries or dismissing your feelings. You are your biggest advocate. No one else can read your mind or feels what you feel.