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the bees kissed i can die happy

art tag is fuckall idk // bigender (woman and enby) aroacespec butch lesbian // 21 // white // just look at the search feature for my interests // always open for drawing reqs ((from mutuals!!))

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4 years ago

I wanna spread some love to everyone who has misophonia/misokinesia tonight

misophonia is a sensory disorder where certain sounds (things like chewing, breathing, tapping, any of those little human sounds we make all the time) cause a horrible surge of emotional distress in you. it’s not being “annoyed” or “grossed out” at a sound, it’s having an intense terrible feeling triggered inside you when you hear the noises that makes you want to scream or tear your hair out or claw out your own eardrums with your bare hands just to escape the sound. it’s terrible, and it’s awful, and there’s really no way to make it better or cure it. misokinesia is the same thing but with sights instead of sounds, like fingers moving or someone twirling their hair or even just specific markings on a piece of paper

I’m sorry if you feel like you’re a burden on your loved ones because they have no way of understanding how terrible it feels. you’re not a burden, and you’re not controlling. you’re not a bad person for not being able to eat dinner with your family. you’re not a bad person for needing to leave the room when one of your loved ones is humming to themselves. you’re not a bad person for asking someone to stop clicking their pen or bouncing their leg. you’re not a bad person for wearing noise cancelling headphones around other people. you have a really awful terrible issue and I know it sucks but people who don’t have it will never be able to understand what you’re going through and so their reaction to you comes from a place of complete misunderstanding, and it doesn’t say anything about who you are as a person. I’m sorry that they don’t understand you, and I’m sorry that you have to choose between being triggered and feeling like you’re the worst person alive for telling people about your triggers in the first place


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4 years ago

look i know we all love to make fun of amity for being a flustered idiot around luz but after sitting on wilw for a while i just want to take a moment to appreciate that those scenes simply exist in the first place. for the longest time, all of the representation for wlw relationships in media was either oversexualized, full of conflict and melodrama, or forced to remain non-explicit and hidden in subtext until the show’s finale. now, we have a 14-year-old girl, explicitly confirmed to have a crush on her friend, another girl, in season one, and she acts just the way you’d expect any other 14-year-old to act around their crush: like a flustered idiot. amity and luz are just two dumb kids who both happen to be girls that are able to navigate their feelings and develop their relationship in a relatively natural and healthy environment and i am so happy for the kids that will now be able to grow up seeing this normalized in a tv show that they love.


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