Ok Hear Me Out

ok hear me out……

gender-fluid travnat

*running away*

I've grown tired of posts that 'affirm' queer sexuality that throw asexual queer people under the bus. I'm tired of puritan sanitisation being blamed on the boring sexless frigid queers and not the long history and system of sexual puritanism which, spoiler alert, never supported sexless queer people ace or not regardless. I'm tired of 'progressive' compulsory sexuality being promoted and supported with a 'oh yeah some people are ace' slapped in at the end. I'm tired of every single post about how the sexless uwu pink sapphics and flowercrown gay boys or whatever scapegoat we're picking today is causing the downfall of the community and representation and not y'know, actual lesbophobia, homophobia etc. I'm tired of everyone assuming to be an asexual and/or sexless queer person means being white, feminine, delicate and soft because they can't imagine Blackness and masculinity as something compatible with being ace and/or sexless. I'm tired of asexual and/or sexless queerness being acknowledged as long we accept we're a niche minority and different from 'normal' and 'real' queerness. I'm tired of every recognition of asexual queerness being adlibbed with 'this is valid but remember most queer people are NOT like this' 'you're valid but remember the real queers fuck and we're not boring like these lot!' because the idea of a lesbian, gay, bi, pan or trans asexual is that uncomfortable and 'bad representation' for people to comprehend apparently. I'm tired of asexual and sexless being used as insults to attack other queer people and characters who 'fail' to live up to their queerness. I'm tired of queerness being that needs to be lived up to in the first place and not just something you are. I'm very tired of every post that's supposed to affirm my identity always degrading the other. I'm tired of being an other in a group of others.

give me cute travlottienat/travnat/travlot/lottienat hcs in my inbox please i beg of you…….

travis the typa girl to set the chat theme to “love” unironically 😭

HELPPP im imagining it now 😭 she asks nat and/or lottie if they also have a concerning relationships with their fathers and when they say yes she changes it….travis is such a loser i love her sm

such a cutie idea :3 /gen

I hc that when Natalie is in her full Antler Queen era, the other girls refer to Travis as the Consort/Princess/Princess Consort.

STOP that’s so cute….royal consort travis & head priestess lottie……

i love this. ty for blessing me with your knowledge o7