"I Respect You And Won't Stop You From Being Who You Are" And "I'm Not Ready To Call You By A New Name

"I respect you and won't stop you from being who you are" and "I'm not ready to call you by a new name and pronouns because it hurts me" can not co-exist when the speaker is your parent who has a huge amount of control over your life.

Oh— I didn't think I'd ever be tagged in these things lol! But hi! (Decided to link them as well because I've been meaning to get the links for my own personal playlist for a while now anyways lol) this was really hard to choose tbh, but these are probably what i listen to the most lately ^_^

1 : Dove – Doll Version — Antihoney ★

2 : Red Sex (Re-Strung) — Vessel + Rhaki Singh ★

3 : Labour — Paris Paloma ★

4 : Pure As A Lamb — Baby Bugs ★

5 : Digital Hallucination — OR3O ★

Tags (ask to be removed) : @sysgrapesoda , @sanguinaryfreaks , @losbozos-system , @porcelainfreak-zacrucian & @cynicisystem

✨ when you get this please share 5 of your current favorite songs and then pass this ask on to 5 of your favorite followers (or whoever you feel like!) ✨

Ooo, I do love tag games that talk about music! I think music is such a personal thing. Thank you for asking @yourlocallygrowngay I’d be interested in your list as well.

Let’s see, fave songs right now….

• Blinding Lights - The Weekend

• How You Like Me Now - The Heavy

• The Air That I Breathe - The Hollies

• Three Days - Jane’s Addiction

• Love Runs Out - OneRepublic

Bonus - These Arms of Mine - Otis Redding

Let’s tag up: @appalachiancowboy99 @cassietrn @lacrymatoryao3 @sickvictorianangel @moeitsu @rosemary-morgan @roseghoul26 @zanazirafanfic

Sorry, can’t count….well I can, but can’t narrow down to save my life 😁

Waves !!!!

Aaa— I see me! Hi!

waves!

As a transmasc I'm tired of people forgetting about me

I'm tired of people acting like my suffering doesn't exist. Like I have it easy or like I'm just fine

I'm bullied constantly, I literally cannot leave the house without someone saying something about me or to me that makes me feel unsafe or unhappy or hurt.

I can't go online without seeing "men are horrible" or "fuck all men", it makes me feel guilty for identifying this way. No I'm not completely a man, but I'm part man. I know men. I don't care if they're trans or cis. I know men that are good.

Please stop acting like because I'm masculine I don't get to suffer. I've seen people say trans-mascs can't say tranny, as if I haven't been called that 50 times already. As if people don't discriminate against us too.

This post probably doesn't make sense but I'm honestly so tired and pissed. Please stop acting like trans men or transmascs have it easy. We do not. You are not helping. You're making things worse for us.

What’s the real harm done by someone who became plural due to being a writer, which is actually an incredibly common experience?

What’s the real harm done by someone whose religious or spiritual practices involve plurality due to sharing their mind with those who they worship?

What’s the real harm in someone who views their imaginary friends as headmates in order to cope with loneliness, isolation, or mental illness?

This blog is not doing the good you think it is. Being anti-endo is not such a noble thing, and it actually comes across as bigoted in a lot of ways, the very least of which is dismissive to those of other spiritual beliefs and ableist to those who are literally disabled who still experience plurality without trauma.

Being plural by writing is not a common experience.

I have never seen any other spiritual practices need someone or make someone become plural.

The harm doesn’t come by imaginary friends.

The real harm that all of what you said does is the further demonization of endogenics, “non-traumagenic system,” and people like you do to a disorder that is cherry picked from. The harm is that you will always scream “bigot” and “ableist” like a boy that will always cry wolf because you’re not getting your way. The harm is that the more endogenics, “non-traumagenics,” tulpagenics, and people that support these people take away resources from OSDDID systems.

I cannot find a therapist that supports what I need. I cannot find a therapist that will openly say that they will support OSDD or DID. I cannot find a therapist that will help support me to heal from OEA. The more people fake, the worse it becomes for systems. The harm done to genuine systems who cannot get out of endo and pro-endo spaces because of this sort of thing that you do.

Tulpagenics have taken away a practice so dear to those that participated and has offended a culture. You cannot be so daft as to think that anti-endos are the ones causing harm.

I’m here as a means of giving community to people like me a place to get away from people like you. If you can’t accept that, block me and move on. You can believe what you want to believe but do not put it here.

I don’t care if I’m being noble or not, I don’t care if someone sees me as doing something amazing. I care on having a community that won’t shove things down my throat as a means of conforming to the masses. I’m used to being infamous with a terrible reputation, I don’t care if that never changes. It will be expected of me to do bad things so I’m as free as I’ll ever need to be.

And I can continue being free from the muck you’ve spilled here.

You cannot be plural without trauma. Just because some don’t remember their trauma doesn’t mean that those that know are noble either.

You’re not noble for coming here.

You and the people that want to scream what you do are the ones that treat a disorder like a gender identity and the ones that want to harm others and tell others terrible things because you can’t handle it.

You can’t get everything you want in life. Best to learn it young.

Get off of my blog, my page, and away from my people. Go ass kiss to yours and I’ll continue treating mine like royalty.

I’m thinking about that person who asked me “ugh why would your parents want you to be attracted to men? Wouldn’t that make you gay? You men try to make everything about yourself” when I made a post about how I feel pressured to be a women who likes men because I grew up being told I’d be a woman who would marry a man and I asked if that counted as comphet. And people just couldn’t wrap their head around the fact that trans guys experience the misogynistic and heteronormative pressure to be women who likes men.