Reassurance To Age Regressors With Trauma:

Reassurance to age regressors with trauma:

You are not a burden to your friends, your partner, your caregiver, or anyone else when you regress. If anyone in your circle has a problem with it, that's THEIR problem, not yours.

Your regression is not 'dirty' or 'gross' or any other word like that. You are free to cry, and scream and fuss during your regression if you need to. Regression is not always happy, but that's okay. You do what you need to cope.

Once you regress, there's no rush to go back up in age, or be an adult. You can be regressed for weeks or months, however long you need is fine.

No one is going to take away your toys or comfort items. They're right there with you, and that's where they'll stay, I promise.

It's okay to talk to your caregiver about boundaries your regressed self has. Boundaries count during regression as much as they do when you are big. Example: My little doesn't like timeouts, they make her upset so when she gets fussy, I ask her to "draw papa why you're frustrated instead." And then she explains it to me.

It's alright to have a loud outburst while you're regressed. Sometimes, it may be scary to do that if it's always been met with negativity, but it shouldn't have ever been that way.

It's okay to ask your caregiver to hold you, or tell them you need attention, or a hug. If they can't at the moment, that doesn't mean they don't love you though. Still, any caregiver will understand if you tell them that.

No one secretly hates you. I promise you, no one secretly hates you, or your regression.

I'm so glad you were born. Thank you for making the world a more beautiful place because you are in it. I care about you and want more than anything for you to be safe and happy 💝

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!! REMINDER !!

this blog is a safespace for:

regressors who regress to ages a lot higher or a lot lower than whats commonly discussed

pet regressors :D !!

age dreamers

systems with syskids or with alters who regress in general

regressors who arent sure about their regression yet

trans regressors

regressors who have been regressing for longer than most

regressors who dont talk about it openly on social media

non-white, disabled or plus size regressors who dont feel represented by a lot of the aesthetic images that circulate tumblr

trauma regressors who dont remember what exactly that trauma is

regressors without/who dont want a caregiver