I Might Get Some Hate For This Depending On Where This Post Goes But I Think Lesboys Are So Valid And

i might get some hate for this depending on where this post goes but i think lesboys are so valid and the discourse about them is so ridiculous. like you guys shouldn't have to deal with all that and it frustrates me that people throw hissy fits over an identity that literally does not affect them at all.

"but men cant be lesbians-" wrong. butch lesbians and trans men have a really closely connected history with each other that practically intersects and you should really do some research on that before you make blanket statements, not to mention that gender and sexuality is weird and wobbly and fluid and a very personal experience. it means a different thing to each person. being a man can be something completely different and saying stuff like this ignores people like demiboys, demigirls, genderfluid and genderflux people etc. these people will really preach "demolish the gender binary!! love is love!!" until someone's relationship with gender and sexuality is a little too freaky for them to handle and be challenged by lmaoo

"ohhh but what about the cishet men who say they're lesbians to prey on women-" YEAH WHAT ABOUT THEM????? THIS AIN'T ABOUT THEM BRO!!!!! this argument also REEKS of terfy "trans women are just predatory men!!!111!!1" rhetoric and it grosses me out. yeah some men are gross and do try to pull this but that does not negate someone's entire identity completely just because of a few bad actors, you know that right? actual black and white behaviour.

queer discourse is silly and i don't know why it's a thing. just let people exist. it isn't that hard. we have worse things to worry about than whether someone calls themselves a lesboy or not. i think we need to unplug our ears and yank our heads out of the sand and remember that the queer community is what it is because of our unique and amazing diversity. arguing over labels like school children isn't gonna help that. damn.

how it feels to be an aegosexual looking for slash fanfics in your favourite fandom:

finding a fanfic that has a really good premise and is really romantic or smutty and has your favourite character but then seeing "slash reader" in the tags or seeing it mention "you" as in the reader is an instant turnoff for me. it's like noooo why did i have to be involved in this character's life all of a sudden :(

this is officially the dumbest thing i ever made

just had another oddly specific Star Trek thought.... what do they do with all the replicated cups and plates at Ten Forward? like pretty much every food and drink comes with its own glass and its own plate or bowl and cutlery, and yet we never see what happens to them. do they keep them or do they destroy them with a phaser after they're done? does Guinan just have this comically large collection of glasses and plates stored in a secret closet no one knows about?

mid-post update: looked this up and learned they actually just go back into the replicator and get dematerialised. that explanation sounds really boring though so i'm going to imagine Guinan's hilariously gigantic crockery collection instead because that's funnier

feeling like you've peaked as an artist is when you go to take a photo of your work and your camera app recognises the drawing of your character's face as an actual face

ok i have no idea who Francis Mosses is but i kept seeing people cosplaying this handsome milkman everywhere on this online game i play, and for a second i genuinely thought that it was the Milkman from Psychonauts and that he had become a sexyman and i just missed it.

like i thought everyone was simping over this guy and i'm a little disappointed that it isn't actually him tbh