THATS BEEN A SENSORY ISSUE THIS WHOLE TIME?

THATS BEEN A SENSORY ISSUE THIS WHOLE TIME?

rain is little needles on my arms

The real harm to the LGBTQ community is done by exclusionists. I'm sorry about your experiences, OP

i wish i felt safe in wlw spaces, but ive been so ostracized by exclus on so many occasions where i often find i become scared and closed off, especially with cisgender lesbians. it hurts that i've been isolated from a community i absolutely belong in over identity discourse. im not even referring to just lesbian spaces, because i wont even go to those anymore, and im starting to feel as if i dont belong in ANY sapphic or wlw spaces at all.

its... sad.

Real

If your account isn’t a safe space for Mspec Lesbians, Lesboys, Mspec Gays, Turigirls, Straight Lesbians, Straight Gays, Cis Trans folks, AFAB TransFems, AMAB TransMascs, Mspec Straights, etc. then don’t call it a “LGBTQIA+ safe space”.

'I'm autistic and I understand gender!!' Cool, I'm autistic and also understand the concept of gender. However, my understanding of it may be considered 'atypical' due to the fact that perhaps I understand it more than the average allistic; I'm able to put two and two together that since gender is constructed, the way it presents can be abstract due to even the designated 'normal' boxes being abstract. And you know what? Some people may even classify my understanding as a lack of understanding because I don't see the societal construct as a rigid box with rules.

It's almost like autistic people aren't a fucking monolith; some autists will understand gender in a way that aligns with societal expectations, some will have a different understanding of gender, and some of us will just downright not understand it at all. Get your head out of your ass and realize the people who want autistic people dead, the ones who see us as lesser beings, don't care if you're a 'normal' gender or plantgender. The problem with us, in their eyes, is that we're not allistic. Simple as that.

okay yeah youre a girlboy boygirl genderfucky malewife but are you like normal abt bigender ppl

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ADHD lesbian flag

ID: rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The top three stripes are all shades of magenta, which vary in their pinkish hue. The top stripe is so dark it's almost black, and the next two stripes get lighter. The middle stripe is the widest stripe, and is light yellow. The bottom three stripes are shades of orange, with the last stripe being the darkest and most vibrant. Its appearance is reddish in color. In the middle, the ADHD butterfly symbol — which vaguely resembles an infinity sign with how its lines overlap — is visible. It is black. End ID

I literally just made this cuz I like the ADHD flag (oh, and because I have ADHD smh/silly) bddbdbbd. You know the rules: this flag can be used by all lesbians with ADHD, professionally and self diagnosed.