Literally It's So Frustrating. Like I'm Really Expected To Control My Anger When People Do Things That

Literally it's so frustrating. Like I'm really expected to control my anger when people do things that push me into a corner, because they 'didn't mean to uwu' ? Fuck off

I've gotten better with my outbursts but sometimes it's like people are purposely testing me just to turn around and play angel baby victim.

It's very common for people to push those with demonised personality disorders to the end of their tether via manipulation, bullying, abuse, etc. and then get upset with them when they inevitably snap.

It happens a lot within the neurodivergent community, too! People spread lies about us, do things that purposely upset/trigger us and then when we start to get upset/stand up for ourselves/etc. it's "sEE??? we were right about them all along!!!!"

I've been seeing a disturbing number of "queer safe spaces" describe themselves as things like "femme & them" and even worse "she+," conflating femininity & nonbinaryhood. cease this immediately. say it with me: nonbinary people are NOT women-lite and it is extremely violent and straight up incorrect to imply that all they/thems are fem adjacent. this is erasure and this verbiage does nothing but make gnc and nonbinary spaces unsafe for masc and male nonbinary people. nonbinary, genderqueer and other third gender people can be and are masculine and men, we can be hes as well as shes and theys, stop allowing yourself and your peers to view nonbinary as woman/femme-lite, signed a butch nonbinary person.

Danish painter Gerda Wegener (1886 – 1940) and her spouse trans woman Lili Elbe (1882 – 1931)

Fake-claimers when someone isn't outwardly suffering enough: they're FAKING. It's CRINGE.

Tw r/fake disorder cringe

[ID: a reddit screenshot from r/fake disorders cringe. The name and profile picture of the OP is blurred out, but the amount of time that has passed since it was posted — 355 days ago — is visible beside the blanked out username. The content of the post (that's visible in the screenshot) is a title, which reads 'Someone made a pride flag for their personality disorder😧 [shocked face emoji]' end ID]

God fucking FORBID a mentally ill person makes a silly little flag for their silly little mental illness! What? Awareness? Pride instead of shame? Fun? Sorry no, you have to be suffering CONSTANTLY to be mentally ill, because some fuckface on reddit said so! (HEAVY SARCASM)

And yes, I'm pissed off about this. Why? Because mentally ill people can't fucking do anything without being ridiculed. Shut the fuck up and let us EXIST and be VISIBLE. GOD.

So cringe how there's TERF shit on the AFAB trans woman/AFAB transfem tag/s. So, to cleanse the palette, this post aims to celebrate my fellow AFAB transfems who aren't just TERF-y trans men in denial.

Oh, and AMAB transmascs are cool asf too.

Perisex or intersex, your identity is valid; people have made 'intersex exclusive' terms for the same experience already, so don't let people discourage you from using AFAB transfem/AMAB transmasc labels if you're perisex. -an intersex person who also struggles with feelings of invalidity surrounding this topic

Gender is fucking weird; if there is an AFAB girl and they feel like a girl in a trans way, what the fuck are you gonna say to that person? 'Oh you're just cis lol' ? Fuck that. Of course though, that individual is perfectly allowed to use 'cis' as a descriptor if they so desire, that's the beauty of minding our own business when it comes to the identities of others.

You — and I cannot emphasize this enough — are VALID, and it doesn't even matter if others think you're valid, either. Your identity is not up for debate, identities don't have to be seen as 'valid' in order for someone to identify with them. I hope you can remember that when you have some fucker in your DMs or what have you crying about how your existence 'harms' the community (cuz they're wrong).

okay yeah youre a girlboy boygirl genderfucky malewife but are you like normal abt bigender ppl