I Love Being Aro I Love Being A Bi Lesbian I Love Being A Genderqueer Girlbutch Boyfemme I Love Having

i love being aro i love being a bi lesbian i love being a genderqueer girlbutch boyfemme i love having a gender that feels like stars and willows and roses i love respecting other people and the infinite vastness of queerness i love having a gender and sexuality experience influenced by my autism i love being queer in a political and social way i love being visibly queer i love the guy who got excited about my queer shirt today and the young person who told me my openness made them feel more open and the trans guy who worked at a store i went to who i'd never met before and was ranting about body standards with after 5 minutes i love the many young closeted kids who have approached me thanking me for the shirts i wear while cautiously making sure their parents couldn't hear them i love the friend with whom i mutually offered to take in another friend with transphobic parents i love the friends i've made being queer and the things i've learned and the community i've gained and i even love the anger and the pain because that is what will inspire me to change the world and i love that. i love being me.

I feel like I don't talk about mspec gays all that often, so… how are y'all? Any exclusionists giving you shit lately? Know that I support you, and there's a whole community of people who also support you. You've got a beautiful, complex identity that belongs to YOU, and nobody has the right to shit on that.

Christians telling others to "not influence the children with your ideology" lmaooooo you guys are actually hilarious, your kind purposefully goes around the world seeking out poor people to influence and force the children to be religious since they are born without giving them basically any choice and WE are the ones "influencing children" by telling them queer people are real and deserve respect and human rights as any other person???? I can't stand you and I'm sorry for the religious people that are actually reasonable and have to deal with the majority of the people in their religion being bigot assholes like you

Not to sound like a terrifying communist or anything, but I think it's bad when we let people die from preventable causes.

Ok but the ocean mlm whatever flag WAS stolen from the lesbian flag. It was the lesbian flag first

who fucking cares.

FRRR

Okay I'm gonna overshare a bit (trigger warning for violent stims under the cut)

When I get really angry, I tend to hit myself in the head repeatedly.

One time, I decided to look up whether this tendency would have really bad effects in the long term... and instead got a lot of articles aimed at parents with autistic kids. It's really embarrassing tbh💀💀💀

I hate hate hate hate HATE that most of the time when I’m searching for info on autism the results always regard autistic children and are written by allistic adults for allistic parents who hate autistic children

Like I’m just going “hehe hey google do other autistic people sensory seek in carbonated drinks” and Google is like “DUMB STUPID LITTLE AUTISTIC BABIES REALLY LIKE DRINKING DUMB STUPID LITTLE AUTISTIC DRINKS LIKE SPRITE AND COKE BECAUSE THEY’RE DUMB STUPID LITTLE AUTISTIC BABIES!!!!!”

Best friend. The autistic kids you’re writing about so unkindly are going to become adults. And they’re going to be unhappy when they read that shit.