It Would Definitely Make Me Feel Less Uncomfortable With Wearing My Own, As I Don't Really Fancy The

It would definitely make me feel less uncomfortable with wearing my own, as I don't really fancy the idea of people clocking me as trans. Not right now.

reblog if you think more cis people should wear pronoun pins

I feel bad for the detransitioners that aren't grifters because detransitioning was already stigmatized (I believe??) before these people showed up.

Also yeah being bald shouldn't be an attackable offense but here we are... additionally, Need I remind everyone that women can go bald, too? What about cancer patients? What about people with alopecia? Going after this detransitioner's baldness— and making fun of baldness in general— harms women, too! That's right, it harms the very people these TERFS claim they are protecting! Ffs...

of course the detransitioner trending right now is a TERF grifter but the fact that people immediately went to attacking the fact that they are bald is maybe perhaps transphobic

trans guy who finally figured out his name, about to come out in the funniest way to his friends: hey guys can i be frank with you all

Here's a mspec lesbian/gay supporter/ally flag made by @IdioticMikeland on twitter/IdioticMikeland#4417 on Discord. We used the het flag for the triangle because we had pretty much no other options.. I say "we" as we brainstormed ideas together, but he was the one to make the actual flag.

Transphobes who say their pronouns are beep/boop or something else in their bio underestimate my willingness to adhere to those pronouns

Beautifully put. /gen

Y’all realize that by attacking other trans people

(Non Binary people, Trans people with less prominent dysphoria)

Y’all are helping transphobes,

Here’s how

You are blaming these different forms of trans people for transphobia rather than blaming the transphobes

Every moment y’all spend pointlessly attacking other trans people is time not spent getting rights for the community

By being assholes and exclusive, you’re not only pushing many people out of the community, not only dropping your forces, but you’re scaring many trans people into the closet (which is bad)

You’re all making yourselves look like massive assholes, which does worse to help your credibility than “tucutes” do (the “tucute” trans community may look “silly” but it’s positive and based on self expression, the Transmed trans community is based on exclusion, gatekeeping, and self hatred [as self hatred is literally a requirement])*

*you may say I’m “hypocritical” for saying transmed trans people are to blame for more transphobia, but you guys are directly spreading hate and feeding into transphobic ideas. (Said transphobic ideas being, “You can disrespect someone’s pronouns and identity if they’re xyz”)

All in all, Transmeds do more harm than “tucutes”

All Tucute harm is alleged and illegitimate (read bullet 1) It’s transphobic people’s fault for their transphobia, not other trans people for giving them “the wrong idea”

Transmed harm is real, and it’s based on hate, exclusion and paranoia.

Y’all are wasting your time!

Most Transmed ideology stems from

Ignorance

Intolerance

Insecurity

Pride

Some of y’all just don’t understand Non Binary or people with different lesser forms of dysphoria. You can not understand something and still respect it. As long as it’s not literally fundamentally against you human dignity or identity. Educate yourself, it’s better to admit it and learn than stay ignorant

Y’all intolerant people are similar to the ignorant people, in that since you don’t vibe with it, you feel the need to shun it. First of all, that’s the exact mindset of many bigots so check yourself. Second of all, y’all need to get off your high horse. You are in no position to say that someone else is not valid. Despite what you believe, “tucutes” are not a threat to the trans community (see above points) and aren’t harmful. So just let them be. So what if they aren’t trans? We have bigger fish to fry hun. (Remember, hardly anything give transphobic more power, than y’all attacking other trans people instead of fighting transphobia)

I know some of y’all have good intentions and just wanna protect your community. I also understand that it may be scary to think that non trans people could be invading the trans community. But seriously, think about who your true enemy is, people who, most likely, genuinely believe that they are trans and mean no harm, and are just exploring their identity, or bigots who literally want all forms of trans people to be erased. You don’t need to be ashamed of your trans identity. We’re all valid (except hateful people)

It’s good to be proud of your identity and community. But to be prideful to the point where you feel the need to put others down is wrong. There’s self love and pride, and then there’s selfishness and pride. It’s selfish to say that anyone who hasn’t suffered like you have or isn’t like you isn’t valid. It’s selfish and prideful to say that only people like you are special and trans and anyone else isn’t valid. I know it may be nice to take something that’s been a source of pain, and turn it into a source of pride. But you should pride yourself on your identity, not your suffering

“Tucutes” are just trying to live their lives comfortably like everyone else. They’re not our enemy. transphobes who actively try and take rights from trans people are

“Tucutes” are not to blame for transphobia. Transphobes are.

Side note: y’all say that being trans is a terrible thing that isn’t cool and shouldn’t want to be. Yet you guys up it on this pedestal and decide it’s worth gatekeeping? What sense does that make

Honest final thoughts:

… why are we having this conversation?! It’s s waste of time! There are homeless trans kids and trans people being killed! And instead of handling that, we’re arguing over this shit?! Again, I know people will say “It’s the tucutes’ fault this is happening” but not only is that not legit. That’s still not doing anything to fix what’s happening.

This is a waste of time! Stop wasting time being transmed or truscum! Do something that matters!

We are NOT in a stable enough position in terms of treatment and rights to be able to start nitpicking who’s trans or not