Can Yall Stop Acting Like Using It/its Pronouns For People Who WANT To Use Them Is Horrible?

Can y’all stop acting like using it/it’s pronouns for people who WANT to use them is horrible?

I get it, you feel like it/it’s pronouns are dehumanizing, trust me, I know, you’re like the 99th person to say this to me

And I see this EVERY TIME when people say anything about using it/it’s pronouns,

👏just👏use👏people’s👏pronouns👏

End of story

ok wait, reblog if you’ve cried at least once because of math, doesn’t matter which grade i’m trying to prove something 

(This isn't directly directed at OP, but I need an excuse to ramble about this stuff lmao.)

I'm not inherently against truscum, either. However, from what I've seen they appear to just use their rhetoric to invalidate other people. That's what I'm against. I have seen so many bad examples of the trumed community that I have trouble believing that anyone who identifies as truscum/trumed is a good person. Because more often than not– and this my opinion– they're a hateful group of people. They hate themselves for being trans, and they hate others who are happy to be trans. And that is pitiful to me.

However, I can understand looking at a GNC trans person, or a non-dysphoric trans person, and thinking "wow, they're making a mockery of something I struggle with. How dare they!" But how dare ANYONE police other people's identities? They can say that they care about these "trenders" all they want, but they don't. It's so obvious that they don't, because if they did, they wouldn't constantly berate these GNC and non-dysphoric trans people. They wouldn't be invalidating their identities. Use your truscum logic to validate your own identity, but don't use it to invalidate others and expect to be accepted by the wider trans community.

Fuck off and let people use xenogenders. Let people use neopronouns. Because as much as it feels that they're mocking your struggles, they aren't. It's their personal identity and it doesn't invalidate their experiences (or yours!). pressuring people to be dysphoric, pressuring them to want to be cis and not have fun with their gender, is ASTRONOMICALLY fucked up.

If a truscum comes across this post, I want you to know that I don't hate you or your group. I hope that you can find peace within yourself, without hurting others. Being trans isn't a disease, a horrendous thing (though it can feel like it is). It can be hard sometimes, but it doesn't have to be ugly.

Have a good moment in time, whoever is reading this post. <3

Wondering if the whole “need dysphoria” to be trans thing” Is actually harming youth

Now I’m not against transmeds/truscums. Im not even against trucutes! But as a teenage person I spend 90% of my time purposefully forcing dysphoria onto me to ensure that I am “trans and not faking it”

It makes me feel like I don’t know who I am anymore. Countless rituals of just me doing the same thing to make sure im trans and not faking it or I get euphoria.

 On those few days I don’t give a fuck, I’m so much more happier. I don’t care if I’m “100% trans guy” or “100% cis girl”: I’m just me! And I’ve heard other people feel pressured too thanks to the dysphoria thing.

I appreciate every trans person who isn't quite binary and isn't quite nonbinary

Let's get real and talk, As a trans man I don't feel welcome in the trans community tbh. there are so many hateful people in our community, that like to gatekeep or project their own shit on people. I'm so sick of other trans people telling OTHER TRANS PEOPLE that they are not trans because *insert reason here*. Honesty SHUT THE FUCK UP! There is no "right way to be trans".

I'm a passing trans man, who has had surgery, and I still get called a "transtrender" by dumbasses. Like fuck OFF!? Who tf are you to dictate who is trans???

Trans men CAN be feminine.

Trans men CAN be masculine

Trans men Can do what ever tf they want.

LET PEOPLE LIVE.

I'm proud to be trans and it pisses me off that other trans people put other people down, just because they are different from them. I haven't even looked at any trans tags in months because there is always someone putting other trans people down.

Worry about yourself and let people live their life man.

You know what’s weird? People’s opinions on it/it’s pronouns

They say it’s “dehumanizing”

But you call your unborn children it?

You say “it’s a boy” or “it’s a girl” which means it is actually pronouns too

And I NEVER hear anyone calling their babies they don’t know the sex of “they”

You are more comfortable using it/it’s pronouns for a baby that can’t consent to those pronouns then using them for someone who literally likes being called it and CONSENTS to using those pronouns