You Remind Me Of Someone

“You remind me of someone…”

Well folks my next hard hitting meme is here 

I just like drawing Kakashi with plants 

I thought it would delight you to know that ants do have a sort of funeral mound for their dead

yes there is a name for this! necrophoresis is a process with social insects where the bodies are taken to a specific location on the outside of ( or within ) the nest - ants tend to keep them all in the same place, and the way an ant is signaled to be "dead" by its other members is through the release of a chemical called oliec acid

theres even been a few experiments where live ants were coated in the same chemical and other ants treated the live ants....exactly as though they were dead and tried dragging them into the pile

nothing has more of the preschooler feel than wearing your purse around your neck

I didn't think just talking to someone could do anything, but then that one doctor aknowledged me, my pain and my disabilities. He told me "Yeah, you have the right to be angry. What they did wasn't right. It wasn't fair and you didn't deserve it." I was actually talking with someone. He listened and agreed. I told him I needed validation and all, so he gave it to me.

Also, if whoever you're talking to isn't nice. Go away. Find another one. You have the right to stop seeing them and walk away. They constantly have clients coming in and out, they won't judge you or be offended.

idk who else needs to hear this but I was talking about it in therapy and

sometimes having someone as a witness, or having someone listen to your testimony of what happened to you, of your experiences is something that you NEED.

Like,  yes, self validation is the healthiest form of validation, but if you have gone through something – good, bad, traumatic, amazing – it can be really affirming to say it to someone and have them be like “ yes that did happen”

so to anyone who doesn’t know why they are getting the urge to yell out what they are going through in the street : it is normal

This doesn’t mean that trauma dumping is okay, or that you should start screaming out what has happened to you to anyone, but it does mean that it might be worth while finding someone safe to talk to? instead of just keeping it all inside

therapy is cool y’all