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Gray is literally so much more comfortable and at ease with Lucy.
Gray and Lucy literally have one of the most beautiful and healthy dynamics in the series. They share such a deep, mutual and caring respect for each other. They have a mature relationship where they constantly have each otherâs backs. They literally always protect each other and support and care for one another.
GrayLu is literally the perfect recipe for a compelling and healthy ship and you CANâT CHANGE MY MIND.

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A Veritable Essay in Response to a Pro Gr///uvian Argument
Because I hate myself and love bashing gr///via, I forced myself to look up âwhy gruvia is a good shipâ (heretical, I know) to find some points made by pro-gr//vians on why they think itâs a good ship, because I sure canât think of any on my own. This is a post Iâve happened upon, posted below for your viewing displeasure. I shall attempt to dissect each point in this personâs post below the picture.
Here goes nothing.
However, fair warning, this is a doozy. You might need a break during this read. I'd hope people could finish though so I can see what y'all think!

The "forced anime relationship/ not real lifeâ point
- So this point.
Does anon (anonymous poster) not realize that a âforced relationshipâ doesnât mean that Mashima had a gun put up to his head to force him to write gr//uviugly as canon, it means that the relationship is a product of poor writing? I donât know how many times I can rehash just how poor this ship has been written, but I shall do it as many times as I need to I suppose.
Here we go, a lightning round- obsession and idolatry are not healthy to either partner, juvia is selfish and insane, stalking and gaslighting should NOT be fetishized, Grayâs wishes are ignored, this is not love. Thatâs only a fraction as why itâs a disgusting ship, but I shall leave it as that for now bc who has time to read more. All these reasons and more are why this is poor writing and therefore a forced relationship.
All throughout the anime (which I shall use for reference bc I never read the manga) Gray shows disgust for juvia. Any hint of affection for her he displays is merely bc sheâs a fellow member of Fairy Tail and therefore he treats he accordingly. However, he displays his discomfort in her actions clearly, freaking out every time she gets in his personal space and even going so far as to call her âCREEPYâ during the Grand Magic Games. I donât have the brain capacity to provide all the times he rejects her right now, but if you donât believe there are many, I believe you and I watched different shows because 80% of their interactions from the beginning were with her lusting over him and him cringing. All this to say, this is the norm for almost the entirety of the show.
By the way, I have only watched up to after the disbandment of the guild and a few episodes of the last season, aka the Avatar arc, and that was enough to see the part about the juvia and Gray sharing a house. I do know however about the gr///uviugh garbage that takes place in the 100 Years Quest, and remember some about Gray and juvia being in a situation where they have to kill the other that results in juvia having a scar. All the affection that Gray gets for juvia is super rushed and out of the blue after the Tartarous arc. She had done nothing out of the ordinary for Gray. Risked her life to save his? As if Erza and Natsu and many other people havenât done that already. Always been there for him? Well, that is literally the creed of the Fairy Tail family, although unlike them, she has dirty motives for doing so for him. All this to say again, the huge switch from being grossed out by her to becoming affectionate is insanely sudden and jarring. Any relationship written like that is poor writing, to have it one way the whole time and then to flip it on its axis out of the blue.
And ofc the apparent reason for this polarized shift is because juvia sacrificed her life for Gray as Iâve said. But whatâs the difference between her and any of his other friends being prepared to die for him? Itâs that from the beginning, juvia has been declaring her absolute love for him. That is the only difference. He proclaims that he will take her affections seriously for once not because he suddenly likes her, but because he feels obligated, indebted, bound to return her affections because otherwise he feels like heâs disregarded her emotions, like he owes her since he âhasnât given her anything in return even though sheâs signed her life away to himâ. (Let me tell you this. Thatâs a big no-no. Just because your stalker and abuser throws their life away for you does NOT mean you have to suddenly return their feelings. They never cared about your feelingsâotherwise they wouldnât be stalking or emotionally and physically abusing you in the first place! ) Otherwise she threw her life away âfor nothing in returnâ. Think about it. Gray never said that to anyoneeee else who sacrificed or was about to sacrifice their lives for him. The only reason he told juvia that was because she basically bargained her life away for his devotion. She already had her cards on the table, with her open declarations of love, and all she needed was for Gray to feel compelled to throw his hat in the ring.
You might say, âwell itâs not like that was her reasoning for killing herself! She was just being selfless!â To that I say well obviously she was being selfless because she has no sense of self outside of Gray in the first place. Her life doesnât matter so itâs no big deal, all that matters is Gray. She doesnât exist without Gray. And secondly, that may have not been her goal, but if she really wanted Gray to fall in love with her organically, then she would A, not stalk and harass him and listen to when he says NO (consent, people! Itâs important!), and B, she wouldnât feel good about Gray returning her love just because he feels indebted to her. But nope. Sheâs just happy Gray is finally not rejecting her disgusting advances.
In any case, thatâs never a good start/factor of a relationship anyway, with one side madly and blindly obsessed with the other and with the other side being in the relationship because of an overwhelming sense of guilt and debt to the other.
- I know this was supposed to be tacked on with the first question, but like what even is this, âitâs anime, not real lifeâ. Well... obviously??? Who said just bc itâs anime and therefore not real life (again, isnât that obvious?) it gets a pass at being poorly written and just plain terrible? (That doesn't even make sense- there's no script for real life anyway!) Those of us who actually appreciate character depth and chemistry would certainly not give it a pass.
Now, whether you support NaLu or not, I shall use an aspect of it as an example. Their ship has at least some character depth bc Natsu has saved Lucy many times, especially that first time when she was almost kidnapped in the first episode, and he introduced her to the guild of her dreams and, most importantly, to the family she loves today. Of course he would be important to her. From the beginning, Natsu was special to Lucy, whether it was romantic or not (at the beginning, I donât think it was). As for Natsuâs feelings for Lucy, he instantly clicks with her like any other person in FT, but itâs only after Natsu witnesses more of Lucyâs love for FT and its members does he start to treat her a little bit differently. Love for friends is of utmost importance to him, so it makes sense that heâd notice her in his dense way bc she loves FT more than many. With him, itâs hard to tell when heâs acting differently bc heâs so friendly w everyone, but an example is him acting bummed during that Rainbow Cherry Blossom festival. If he thought of everyone as equal in importance, he wouldnât really mind one person not being there and would soon forget himself in the merriment. Obviously, we know thatâs not what happens.
With all this, we see some development and depth. The chemistry is easy to see as well bc theyâre always bickering good-naturally or palling around with Happy tagging along. Honestly, Natsu's side could definitely use some more growth in terms of the ship because Natsu still doesn't treat her all that much different from other people from what I've seen, but my point is that there's a least some development in leading up to the ship. ALL THIS TO SAY (I feel like Iâll be saying that a lot), NaLu is an example of, while far from perfect, at least a start to a non-forced relationship. In anime, no less. -__-
See, no excuses for poor writing. It doesnât have to be a true story to be a good one. Plus, before anything, theyâre best buds, and I think that is the key point to this.
They did not start off as romantically inclined.
Aside from like all of 10 minutes after juvia met Gray, she's obsessed romantically over him for the whole time she's known Gray. juvia literally cannot be more obsessed with him, and that means there was no room for romantic development except from one side, i.e. Gray's. He could do no wrong, and she needed to have him all to herself. Just because he was kind to her once, she believed she owned him. Some might protest love at first sight, even though none of that sounds like love and is in fact not love, but even if it was love at first sight, in terms of a relationship, it's not a good start. She loved him from having basic human decency, and even swooned for him just by looking at him in the first place, so it was all surface level anyway. We don't get to see any development of feelings and loyalty between the two because one is already there and the other has to be pressured there because, again, the other one is already there. There isn't any organic falling in love from either side.
The âblame it on the storyline yadda yaddaâ point
- I donât think this anon realizes that thatâs what anti-gruvians are doing essentially. Itâs really what any person who has a problem with any piece of fiction someone makes is doing⌠Yes we hate the character juvia and her interactions w Gray, but itâs not like sheâs a real person. We realize this bc weâre not insane. Mashima is obviously the true culprit to her bad character, but I mean... We can claim that in one sentence w no real meaning. âI blame Mashima for writing juvia as a bad characterâ... okay, then how is she portrayed as a bad character? âWell, sheâs a stalker and etc.â No matter if it was an authorâs will that made a character the way they are, which is how it works, btw, we still have to work w what we got and scrutinize that characterâs actions as if they had their own agency in order to properly judge a characterâs goodness/quality.
Okay, anon, we blame it on the storyline, on the author. Does that mean sheâs free of scrutiny, that we cannot dislike her? Nope, bc if you believe that, no one can have opinions on anything people write, bc just as there are reasons why we dislike characters, there are also reasons why we like characters. No one questions âdoes that mean we cannot like her?â and you wouldnât say âI blame Mashima for making juvia likeableâ. It adds nothing to the conversation to shift the blame to the author. It doesnât make juvia any more likeable bc guess what, sheâs still the same character no matter if we blame her or Mashima, and therefore sheâs still unlikeable. I feel like I could've articulated this better but it's 2 AM, so if anyone is confused, just send an ask or comment.
The "juvia is a perfect characterâ point
- I kinda hate that these words have to be uttered on my page. It is no exaggeration that she is the single most hated anime character Iâve ever watched in my life. ANYWAY. Saying juvia has had the most character development is such an astonishing thing to say. Sure, she goes from doom and gloom to cheery and obsessing over Gray, but rather than that being character development, it really felt just like a plain 180. Gray did nothing nor said nothing to her in their first fight than what a decent person would do, though to be fair, her whole life hadnât been filled w decent people. Even if he was the first one to be kind to her, the fact that she threw everything away to turn into one giggly stalking obsessive fan-girl for Gray is pretty creepy and cannot be described as good character development.
It took the span of, what, 2 episodes, for her to change?
She has had some nice points, like where she opens her heart to Lucy in the Tower of Heaven, or when she saves Cana by sacrificing herself in the Battle for FT, but she is the opposite of consistent with those instances. Instances of her being a good, kind member of FT to people other than Gray are few and far, far between. A few instances of her being ridiculous and unkind just off the top of my head are her trying to drown Lucy by making her air bubble smaller, her wishing harm on her fellow Grand Magic Games FT people so she could fight alongside Gray, her lying to her guildmates that sheâs worried and wants to go find Wendy on Tenrou Island when she really just wants to find Gray, her throwing the GMGames (even though itâs extremely important to all the other members to make amends for all the humiliation and grief the FT members who didnât get the 7 year skip had to go through w losing all their best members) bc sheâs too obsessed w Gray, and how about her deliberately ignoring Grayâs rejection at the Ball in the palace.
she looks like a pretty stuck, one-track-minded character to me. she only joined FT bc of Gray after all, and although sheâs sometimes nice, she would obviously follow Gray wherever he went, even if that meant leaving FT. Unlike Lucy, who searched endlessly for her former guildmates after the guild disbanded, juvia merely followed Gray off and had the time of her life barging into his house and living w him. she didnât care at all that the guild had disbanded, so long as she had Gray.
That brings me to next part about how sheâs apparently âhad the most character growthâ. This is a great point made in an@absolutezerotoleranceâ post, but basically they posted a picture of juvia when we are first introduced to the she-devil, as the Rain-Woman (who was so much better than the fan-girl juvia we unfortunately are stuck with) and a picture of juvia in the rain after being abandoned by Gray after the disbanding of the guild. Same girl, surrounded by rain and gloom, practically dead to the world, and being in a self-induced sickness no less. she remains near dead until being reunited w Gray.
Now tell me.
If a character only experiences character growth after attaching themselves to another character, and more than that, if you take that attached character away, they revert to their old self, would ANYONE call that character development??? NO! Development is when the character develops for themselves. That is not to say another person cannot help you grow, but to be so dependent on them to maintain your development means you have not developed and are just leeching off that person. This type of person changes only for that person, not bc itâs good for you or that person or anyone else, and have therefore not grown at all. Even more than this, her so-called âgrowthâ isnât growth at all, itâs just different bc sheâs not a better person after turning into Grayâs groupie. Sheâs just intrusive and insane and manipulative.
- If youâre going to prove juviaâs growth just by putting other characters down, thatâs not much of an argument. This, however, might be indirectly this person's best point. I will admit, like this poster said, Natsuâs character development isnât that great. I think that's a product of the nature of his role in the story though. Heâs kind of already your standard perfect mc. His ideals are steadfast, heâs fiercely loyal, and will do anything to protect his friends.
I will agree w anon that his âpersonalityâ stayed the same, though I think when you said that, you revealed that by character growth, you meant just personality change, which juvia did most definitely. Personality does not equal character growth however, especially when your personality takes a turn for the worse. To do such a 180 as she did just shows she had no solid character to begin with.
Anyway, in regards to Natsuâs development, Iâll say a big thing he has over juvia is that heâs already a good person, someone who will beat sense into you if youâre wrong like w Jellal, and someone who will not kill an innocent man just bc of what he might do in the future like w Rogue. juvia is just generally not a good person nor selfless unless it has to do w Gray. That is not consistent character, nor is it commendable.
For Lucy, I think she discovered what it meant to love others, considering after her mom died, she didnât have much love given to her. While mostly silly at first, she became to realize the true bond of friendship, well displayed in the Phantom Lord arc. She learned she was not alone and could rely on others. She sacrifices her body and pride to save Biscaâs little daughter, a girl that Lucy isnât super familiar w like her team, in the GMG against Flair.
juvia would definitely do that kind of thing... if it were for Gray. juvia did do it once for Cana, but after Tenrou, she became one-track minded again. Also, I have problems w that Cana sacrifice thing for several reasons, but this is long enough as it is.
As a general note, I will say I donât think Mashima does well w character development. I think Erzaâs had some great strides at least once w the whole armor thing. After that, the "no armor" thing has just basically been her go-to OP mode which doesn't make much sense. Gajeel is definitely fighting for good now, as well as many enemies in Fairy Tail's world. But a lot of the characters seem a bit stagnant to some degree. With juvia however, I will say that I just donât think sheâs really changed, and that her personality change isnât even a good thing.
- Continuing on, about the "comparing to juvia" section of the point, I feel like the person accidentally proved us right about gr////uviuhno. Yes, juvia had been in Phantom Lord for a while, and then she went on to try to join Fairy Tail for the sole reason of her "sense of attraction" to Gray.
I really don't see your point. Is that supposed to show any kind of character development on her part? This person does realize that this switching of guilds is actually on par with her almost nonexistent character, right? She joined Phantom Lord ONLY because they were the first to act like they wanted her, so she would do anything for them blindly, disregarding the fact that her guild was hurting another guild for no reason besides jealousy, rivalry, and greed, not to mention almost killing all of them with the Jupiter cannon (and especially Makarov with the magic-sucky-suck move), and trying to kidnap a girl. Just goes to show how blindly she'll follow anyone who shows her an inkling of kindness back in her early days (because subsequently, people are kind to her like Lucy, and yet she treats them like dirt because of her delusion that she owns Gray).
Then Gray showed some decency to her, and she imprinted on him harder than a baby chicken. That being her sole reason to join Fairy Tail shows that she didn't suddenly get a change of heart to try to make amends and become a good person, like a good plot development of her character would be, she actually just joined, disregarding the bad things she did to Fairy Tail, dumping her old guild mates except Gajeel as an after thought, because of her addiction of all things "Gray-sama".
Are we supposed to pretend that's a good thing? A good thing for Fairy Tail? Or a good thing in terms of character growth? It really was neither. Something I hadn't thought of before is that although juvia was the reason Lucy got kidnapped, literally drowned her until she passed out, instead of trying to make amends for her, even do so little as to apologize, she harasses her whenever she's in Gray's presence. The mean-spiritedness of that just shocks me.
How awful of a person do you have to be to be an absolute a-hole over a delusional romantic interest to someone you hurt so badly?
And this anonymous poster has the gall to use the only defense pro-gr//vians have addressing her terrible treatment of other women in Fairy Tail, that "it's only comedy". Of course, thanks to the nature of comedy, this seems like an impenetrable defense since comedy is subjective. All they have to do is claim they find it funny, and therefore they are justified for liking the way she treats women whom she views as romantic rivals. While that may be true, I believe there exists humor that just shouldn't be found funny on a moral standpoint. I'd rather not give examples bc then it can get very dark, but if you imagine the worst things that happen on this Earth, there are plenty of things that no one should make light of.
Continuing to elaborate on why I don't think her actions are joke-material, I firstly want to say I personally have never found her fits of fury and passion funny. Even before I shipped Gray with someone else, even when I was a 12 year old when I first watched this show 7 years ago, juvia's disgusting behavior perturbed me to no end. I hated seeing her on-screen at all. Seeing her hate Lucy grinded me the wrong way- Lucy, who is just genuinely trying to be everyone's friend in the guild, considering how she considers them her family, maybe more than most of them do. Fairy Tail is her life, and for juvia to join it just for Gray and to hate Lucy just bc Gray had the audacity to say he'd die to save Lucy, when he owed nothing to juvia bc they literally just met, the attraction was one-sided, and they were MOST CERTAINLY not dating.
I mean look at juvia's level of maturity when Gray said that in the Phantom Lord arc. she was allll prepared to step aside, abandon her guild's goals just bc "ice boy hawt" and decidedly not because she was trying to do the right thing, but as soon as Gray shows his passion for protecting his guild mates, she freaks, yelling that Lucy, whom she's never really met before besides the time she KIDNAPPED HER, "cannot be allowed to live", and then proceeds to try to boil Gray alive.
I am struggling to see how that's funny.
That's just immaturity and insanity, and I would say downright evil. Lucy had done nothing to juvia, yet she was prepared to kill both Gray and Lucy even though her guild was the one that was in the wrong in the first place.
It is insulting to say that juvia is still a good person even after doing those kinds of things "for comedy's sake". Regardless if it is over-the-top to make it funny to some people, they are still actions she took very seriously. I find no fault in judging her on those actions as if she meant them, because she does. Never once does she laugh it off whenever she called Lucy a blonde bimbo or said she'd kill her, or when she suspected Lisanna for going after Gray when she offered to help her in the S Class etc. etc., nor does anyone else laugh it off. The receiving end or the onlookers of the harassment are always uncomfortable and put off by her behavior. (Yet ofc they somehow all support juvia in her manic quest for "Gray-sama's" affection. I don't know, man.)
- However, I shall say this on the "it's just comedy" front that so many pro-gr/uviughs protest about juvia's overexaggerated obsession w Gray. Just like how I don't find Mest/Doranbolt's pedophilic tendencies/implications towards Wendy funny or cute in the slightest, so also do I not find someone who stalks, who creeps, who lashes out at innocent people, who creates out-of-character delusions of you, who uses a loofa made of your face and uses that same loofa to wash her privates and finds pleasure in it, who forcefully intrudes and lives with you while also trying to sleep in your own bed even though you say no, who gaslights, who manipulates, who doesn't take no for an answer, who doesn't ask for consent to touch you and say sexual or romantic things you don't want to hear, who assumes she owns you when nothing you've done suggested that you wanted that and in fact told her the opposite, to be funny in the slightest.
The fact that she's a woman makes many people find it harmless and comical, but as many before me have said, switch the genders and people would label a male juvia as a filthy pervert who doesn't respect a woman's consent. Why is she not viewed as a filthy pervert who doesn't respect a man's consent? That is literally what she is, and I am still to this day unsure how people find that perverse and r*pey behavior humorful... But I suppose there's no helping that if you truly do find it that way.
The "hating juvia bc she's obsessed w Gray and give me input on Lucy" point
- With this point, I was almost at a loss for words. Not because anon had stumped me, but because of the ridiculousness of the argument.
Why can't pro-gr//uv//ians just give a darn argument for their ship without putting other characters WHO ARE NOT RELATED TO THE SHIP down?? That doesn't make your argument stronger, it makes it more easily destroyable. Instead of providing a rebuttal for why juvia's obsession w Gray is a bad thing, anon proceeded to COMPLETELY DUCK AROUND THE POINT and attack Lucy?? Even if you don't like Lucy, that step in logic makes no sense.
You can just ask yourself,
"Okay, so I don't like Lucy, but what does that have to do with gr///uvia??"
(Personally I like Lucy, but it changes nothing whether you do or not bc she is just not related to the argument for gr///uviugh at all.) The answer to that question is it has nothing to do w that ship whatsoever. Anon just started hating on Lucy for crying a lot over the course of the show for no good reason. Not only that, anon exaggerated their hyperbole to "she cries every episode" and "ngl 99% of the show was her crying". I'm sorry, I think you are completely out of line w that comment, not bc I'm a fan of Lucy, but bc that statement is ONE, completely untrue (do I even need to prove that? Like seriously, she was not crying every single episode and no, Fairy Tail wasn't 99% Lucy crying and 1% gr///uviugh. Who would watch that?), and TWO, does nothing to prove why juvia's obsession is a "good thing."
Plus, crying harms no one. Even if you find it kind of annoying to see a lot, are you going to fault someone who cries at truly sad moments? She's never crying for no reason. Plus, almost every main character has cried at least several times in the manga. It just gives the situations our heroes find themselves in depth and meaning.
Anyway, crying shows Lucy cares that much about her guildmates, who were her family when her own family crumbled; crying shows how deep and expansive her heart is for others. She empathizes and loves deeply, and to say that's a bad thing is quite heartless. But see, where her crying harms no one, (crying is not abuse, and I have no idea how Anon is claiming someone's crying to be on par with someone's stalking), juvia's obsession harms Gray quite deeply. Again, no consent and no regard for his feelings, plus all the manipulation she enacts on him to make him think he loves her.
juvia's distrust of all women also harms her relationship with them, and the fact that her bullying did nothing to harm her relations w the guild is another example of Mashima's poor writing. her obsession harms herself, as she brings herself to the point of death from sickness when Gray disappears. So much harm. Again, this particular "point" made by anon just might be the worst one they have made here.
The "I'm in the mood to drop this" statement
- I am not surprised at all that you are, because you have made no good argument for the ship. I applaud the effort, however.
The "I hated the anime but watched it bc of juvia's personality and therefore I am biased" point
- I have no qualms w you wanting to watch an anime for just one character. I am glad you acknowledge that you are biased. MY PROBLEM IS is that while you say this, you still have said nothing to back up why her personality is good in the first place. You can't just say "sometimes people just favor one character over the other and that's normal" in the context of an argument, as that is not an argument for why she is likable.
Yes, in the end, I am not trying to convince this person to hate juvia. We all have opinions that are very hard to change. However, I am picking apart her character bit by bit to show why I do not think she is likable, and Anon is there trying to defend why she's likable and the best character by putting down other characters, by saying "I like her personality", by saying she has more character growth than others when that is verifiably false whether you like her or not, and by saying "I just like her more and that's normal". This entire post made by anon is a non-argument.
The "I don't see why you have to make a thread bashing a character" point
- Just like how you are able to make a whole post defending a character, so can people make posts bashing a character. It goes both ways, anon. Since we are all entitled to our opinions, it's just something we can do. If we are frustrated w a character, why not rant about it on the internet? You say "you could make a thread bashing Lucy, but you don't bc you're not childish", but seriously, anon. Half your argument in response to why juvia's obsession is a bad thing is that Lucy sucks, so I have no idea why you think bashing a character is childish.
You are literally as childish if you really think ranting on a character is childish, according to your own definition of childish, anon.
Just like how you love juvia so much and are allowed to expound on her good attributes (*cough cough* there are none) on the internet, so too can someone hate on her just as much. The internet is and has never been a place where you can only say positive things about people or things. If it were, it would be a place even more filled w lies bc not everything has good sides to it. They owe you nothing. They don't have to hide their opinions just because you love that character. Don't believe the world revolves around your opinions, and especially don't think you're somehow above it all when you literally kept bashing a character yourself. (By the way, I do not find bashing a character to be childish, nor do I find praising a character to be childish.)
Have some self-awareness.
Disclaimer
Yes, in the end, who really cares whom you like? It's all fictional characters, (although I believe popular media affects real life) and this argument was more for fun than any real attempt at changing people's minds. No essay on Tumblr will probably ever change a pro-gr//uviuggo's mind, and that's okay. We'll all live. Won't stop me from bashing her though >:3
Closing Notes:
Well, I think I have covered every base. I hope this all made sense. To be honest, I was planning on cutting this up into several posts considering what a behemoth chonker of a post it is, but then I thought people might not see my response to every point given so I just left it as one mega-post. I am sorry for the length; I hope some of y'all survived.
If any of you think I made a bad point, have any questions, or if you would like me to go more in depth on anything, please feel free to comment or send me an ask. I have my asks on so I hope that is working; like I said before on my blog, I am very new to Tumblr. Thank you for your time! Have a wonderful day