A man’s journey to loose self consciousness and learn to to embody love, kindness and happiness
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Nothing but her
Frida Kahlo, from a letter wr. c. November 1933, featured in The Letters of Frida Kahlo: Cartas Apasionadas
Normalize never forcing people to choose you. If someone thinks they can get better elsewhere – let them. Respectfully.
One day, you wake up feeling fine. You realise they don’t want you and you’re ok with that.
One day, all the positive changes you thought you made for them, you’ll realise that someone else deserves that energy.
One day is today.
There’s a quote, a meme, an anecdote or some form of philosophical internet content that will support whatever narrative you want to believe.
The people creating or uploading the content are not certified mental health practitioners or therapists.
Ask yourself, of the people advocating the steps you’re taking, how many are in successful loving relationships, how many worked to save and heal a family relationship?
We’re influenced by people that think quitting is healing.
If you’re not capable of fighting, you’re not peaceful, you’re weak.
I'm horny but not horny enough to fuck people who don't love me
Exclaim!
An occupational hazard when being transparent, so outspoken, passionate.
Note to self, less heartfelt.
Do you have any good words to use instead of exclaim?
Thank you, I love this blog so much!
So glad to hear this. Thank you! <3 I love making these writing references as well.
Exclaim - to cry out, speak, or utter in a strong or sudden burst of emotion
Assert - to state or declare positively and often forcefully or aggressively
Aver - to allege or assert in pleading
Babble - to talk enthusiastically or excessively
Bellow - to make the loud deep hollow sound
Bewail - to express deep sorrow for usually by wailing and lamentation
Blabber - to talk foolishly or excessively
Blat - to declare positively; to utter loudly or foolishly
Blunder - to utter stupidly, confusedly, or thoughtlessly
Blurt (out) - to utter abruptly and impulsively
Bray - to utter or play loudly or harshly
Burst out - to say (something) suddenly
Caterwaul - to make a harsh cry
Chirp - to utter (something) with a cheerful liveliness; to make sharply critical, complaining, or taunting remarks
Clamor - to utter or proclaim insistently and noisily
Crow - to utter a sound expressive of pleasure
Gab - to talk in a rapid or thoughtless manner
Gabble - to say with incoherent rapidity
Gush - to make an effusive display of affection or enthusiasm
Hoot - to shout or laugh usually derisively
Howl - to cry out loudly and without restraint under strong impulse (such as pain, grief, or amusement)
Inveigh - to protest or complain bitterly or vehemently
Orate - to speak in an elevated and often pompous manner
Perorate - to deliver a long or grandiloquent oration
Repine - to feel or express dejection or discontent
Roar - to utter or emit a full loud prolonged sound
Screech - a high shrill piercing cry usually expressing pain or terror
Shout - to utter a sudden loud cry
Shriek - to utter a sharp shrill sound
Shrill - to utter or emit an acute piercing sound
Snarl - to give vent to anger in surly language
Spout - to speak or utter readily, volubly, and at length
Squall - to utter in a strident voice
Squawk - to utter a harsh abrupt scream
Squeal - to cause to make a loud shrill noise
Vociferate - to utter or cry out loudly
Wail - to express a prolonged cry or sound expressing grief or pain; loud lamentation
Whine - to utter a high-pitched plaintive or distressed cry
Yammer - to utter repeated cries of distress or sorrow; to utter persistent complaints; to talk persistently or volubly and often loudly
Yawp - (or yaup) to make a raucous noise
Yowl - to utter a loud long cry of grief, pain, or distress
Hope this helps. If it inspires your writing in any way, please tag me, or leave a link in the replies. I would love to read your work!
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I’ll never understand how the soul I love most in this universe is also the most damaging to this stripped back deeper version of myself.
“Don’t be a fool. Don’t give up something important to hold onto someone who can’t even say they love you.”
— Sarah Dessen, Someone Like You
Both were lost and alone, both were hurting and suffering in silence, both needed understanding, love, a friend.
One waited blindly, foolishly hoping, the other gave up and found another comfort.
Closeness isn’t a unit of measurement.
Making me loose myself.
Resentment is the hardest injury to recover from.
There is a hole in my heart, deeper than the deepest ocean
- V. Blue
Everyone human on earth is rash and emotional during the toughest times.
Empathy is understanding reasoning.
Human emotion isn’t linear, there’s always blips and that’s natural.
Progress is identifying the blips, identifying the triggers and decreasing the frequency.
being self aware suuuucks like yeah this thought pattern/behavior is stupid and pointless and a symptom. i know this. [does it anyways
The next step of the journey - self worth!
Guys pls romanticize your life, go on solo dates, study in coffee shops, buy yourself flowers, wake up at 5 am to do a workout, cook yourself some dinner, it will bring you happiness I promise! Not for people to see just for yourself!
Relationship tip: don't be doing shit you wouldn't want your significant other doing
Listen up! You already have this superpower. Stop letting people’s shitty perceptions be your kryptonite! You are way too strong and intelligent for their obvious tactics! 💫
I love this, I wish I’d engaged with this instead of drowning in a sea of misconceptions and miscommunications
Sometimes tricky conversations are easier if you feel like you’re explaining yourself to a third party instead of each other. This is why new things often surface at couple’s therapy.
So here’s a fun assignment if you’d like one:
Pretend you have a podcast and are taking questions from callers. Answer these questions together as if answering the callers’ requests. Listen to each other with great curiosity.
1. How would you define your role in the dynamic to someone who is new to the lifestyle?
2. How would you define your partner’s role in the dynamic?
3. What would you change about the way you entered into D/s or BDSM?
4. What the very best thing about your dynamic?
5. What’s the number one thing you would change about your dynamic if you could be totally selfish and snap your fingers to make it so?
6. How important is the D/s or BDSM to your overall relationship?
7. Most people in the lifestyle have dreams at night that maybe push the envelope a bit. If you get these dreams, share a few.
8. How important is discipline/punishment within your dynamic? Do you wish it was more/less important to your partner?
9. Are rules a necessity to keeping your dynamic at the forefront?
10. How often do you need to feel your partner’s dominance/submission?
11. If your partner HAD to either dial their dominance/submission waaay up or waaay down (no middle ground) which would you choose?
12. What is one thing you’ve never tried that you’d like to try this month?
13. Does degradation have a place in your dynamic? Discuss.
14. If spanking is part of your dynamic, and just for this question you didn’t have to take your partner’s desires into consideration at all, would YOU like the spankings to be more/less painful? More/less frequent?
15. What’s your favorite D/s activity? What is your least favorite D/s activity out of the activities you actually partake in?
16. What do you wish your partner had a better understanding of as far as what goes on inside your head regarding D/s? Here’s your chance to really expound. Help them understand you, even if it’s uncomfortable. Take all the time you need.
17. Tell in detail about one of your times together that you really like to replay in your mind.
18. Tell your partner what would make your dynamic even more meaningful to you.
19. Are you holding back because you fear judgement?
20. Why is your partner a great fit for you? What are they great at?
What questions would you like to add?
Talk about it loud, tell the world.
Let them understand what they did themself first, for others may never see them in their true light ever again. Don’t paint a monster because because the portrait got torn.
Another is living and writing my soul. The beginnings go unchallenged, its excitement and raw.
Every love begins this way, for me, even the coldest times couldn’t dampen this love.
"I don’t even think I could ever love anyone as much as I love you. I know I can’t. It’s immoral what I feel for you. The type of love that has to be inhumane because it isn’t natural. There isn't a word strong enough to express how I feel for you. No phrase or sentence or paragraph will ever be able to describe how I feel when I'm with you. So, no. I never loved her the way I love you. I love you in every way possible. You are my everything. You are the reason I wake up. The reason I smile. The reason I breathe. The reason I laugh. The reason I cry. The reason I exist."
Relationship tip: don't be doing shit you wouldn't want your significant other doing