Love Yall Proshippers For Just Existing. Gave Me A Space To Explore My Taboo Fantasies Without Feeling

Love yall proshippers for just existing. Gave me a space to explore my taboo fantasies without feeling guilty or just outright suppressing them, which has made me a lot happier and healthier.

This one goes out to all the proshipper homies. Love yall and this community (platonically) so much.

You know, I find it odd that people on TikTok use that censored language as much as they do.

Personally, when I comment, I can say things like "sex"/"sexuality," "porn," "kill," "rape," etc just fine and still get the usual amount of engagement/not receive any type of warning. Sure, the censorship is there based on the hidden comments feature, but it's flaky at best, ( and really odd cuz I've seen comments like "Hot" be censored, ) so the prominent word censorship culture on there is just really useless half of the time.

I've also seen this one specific creator reading the takes of pro-lifers, and she doesn't censor the words used either. I see her content just fine, even if she says shit like "rape"/"raped" multiple times. Not sure if her engagement takes a hit for it or if she gets warnings, but the content is still viewable to me, and I've seen her multiple times on my FYP ( as recent as just a day or so ago. ) Though do note that censorship is a lot harsher on creators from what I've seen, so I can give them leeway in some cases.

I guess it's a linguistic thing where a word over time changes meaning due to the original one being "bad," so people find a "less bad" word to replace it with until that new word also becomes "bad." But either way, it's annoying as fuck and pretty much pointless.

I don't know if it'll help, but maybe going through the "proship dni", "safeship", or "selfship" tags might be useful? If you haven't blocked anyone using those tags, then you might find DNIs that are like "proshitters dni and go kys" or something since you can sometimes find that there.

I'd also recommend checking the people's pinned posts on those tags if you do go through them, since antis tend to hide their DNIs/hate in their pinned/carrds/bios at times for some odd reason.

Either way, reblogging this so others can help out more than I can, since personally I don't really wanna read anti-shippers being hateful right now for my own mental health's sake.

Also not sure if you already have this resource, but just to make sure, here's a link the the fanlore wiki on the term anti-anti ( aka proship ) and the history on it. There should be linked sources in it, too, if needed, and also a link for the anti-shipper page as well.

Either way, hope that helps! :3

Hey my beautiful siblings in ships can you please help me find pictures of anti-shippers theatening people and all in all being themselves (harassing others and stuff)

I'm writing a pdf file for my therapist about fandom history (i'm normal) because i can't talk to my therapist because he doesnt know anything abt fandom lmao

Never really understood the appeal of vampires, until I read an x reader fanfic where the reader was the vampire.

New kink unlocked I guess.

I just want to say thanks for your blog! It's not usual to find stuff like this!

It's no problem, really! I mean, I literally just like to yap for most of my post, sometimes partake in the selfship stuff by either reblogging posts or making my own imagines, and also like to keep the balance between discourse talk and positivity/acceptance.

Like, personally if I partake in too much discourse, then my mental health start to decline, even if I only stay on the proship side of things. That's kind of why I tend to reblog/post positivity, too, every now and then.

Though I do wonder what you mean with "not usual to find stuff like this," since from what I've seen there's a good handful of blogs like mine. Idk maybe I'm wrong lmao.

My best guess is that you're referring to the proship/pro-kink/pro-para positivity and/or the fact my blog is selfship and proship at the same time, since those are decently rare I think? Idk feel free to elaborate/correct me or not, anon.

Honestly? I don't think they want to be taken seriously, or at least don't care about it. Antis strategy seems to mainly be harassment, shame, and vigilante attacks from what I can tell. Sure, sometimes they ( mass ) report stuff, but none of their actions seem to show them professionally dealing with the presumable predators ( fx. they mass report which can clog systems, they harass the predators which can have them attempt to delete evidence/run, etc. )

Even if law enforcement and platforms are unreliable, and systems to get actual predators dealt with is shit at times, their actions still do more harm than good by fx. messing shit up for law enforcement that are actually doing stuff by making things more messy/chaotic, having people harm themselves due to their harassment no matter if they're innocent or not, etc.

I doubt they actually care about getting predators behind bars with how they act anyway. Their actions more so says they want to harm people they find disgusting, all the while hiding behind the "protecting the kids" argument, rather than do actual good for the world.

Either way, what I'm trying to say is that antis usually seem to prefer to harass and/or "own" people they believe to be predators, rather than want/care about seriously dealing with them in the best/least messy way(s) possible.

Just saw a person in a TikTok comment section with all the "proship" emoji combos. People were saying to check the person's search history and hard drive, but in the same comment section replies the person said they only use all the combos to mock proshippers.

Idk I just find it kinda comical that antis didn't even stop to think "hey, maybe this person using 6+ proship emoji combos in their username is trolling" which ended up with the emoji combo person being harrassed by, like, 10+ people if not more.