Narnianwizard - Unequivocal Dumbass

It’s my birthday today and I am once again aging up as an unemployed, mentally ill, closeted, dumbass little gremlin.

I’m officially in my mid twenties and I still don’t know how to respond to all the birthday messages from people who apparently think of me often while I have the object permanence of an amoeba so I forget they exist.

I know SEVERAL afab nonbinary people who, as soon as they came out as nonbinary - immediately began dressing in ridiculous hyper-femme outfits they never would have worn before.  A lot of people see this and say shit like “Theyfab” or say they are only nonbinary for attention.  After all, look how femme they are.

But to me, this makes perfect sense.  When you are forced into the category of “woman” against your will, femininity is a chore.  It’s a job that you have.  As soon as you say no, I’m not a woman, suddenly femininity isn’t your job anymore.  It’s not a requirement.  It’s just a fun hobby you can get into.  Or a little treat sometimes.