It's Kinda Weird That The Discussion Is Always On If Jikook Will Ever Officially Come Out Because I'd

It's kinda weird that the discussion is always on if jikook will ever officially come out because I'd selfishly like to see it and I think it would be earth shattering but I'm also not expecting every time I think of it I think of the namjoon who's gonna save the world vid. The point though is that Yoongi has been skirting a very thin line of not closeted to anyone with common sense but not officially™️ out and it's never a discussion on if he's ever gonna take that step it's always will jikook announce their relationship like that's not an even more complex conversation as for losing respect for them I think that parts wild because I really don't think that's something they owe anyone but I think I'd gain respect if any of them did ever went that route it doesn't seem impossible but again I'm not expecting it I don't even expect it from American celebrities and they are very decidedly not American

Hmm…that second sentence was one heck of a run on. Who are you, me? 😉 Bear with me, trying to follow you here.

I too think it would be earth-shattering. Between you and me (and anyone who reads this) I have this secret fantasy of the two of them showing up as a couple at the Met Gala. Idk why, I just feel like they would look amazing and it would be such a moment and I’ll just let it live on in my heart and mind since it will never happen in real life. Lol 😂

I’m honestly not sure which Namjoon video you mean… you’re not talking about the UN speak yourself speech are you?

It sounds like you’re saying that people put too much pressure on Jikook to come out not only as queer but also as in a relationship with each other, and you think there should be more of a balance and Yoongi should get some pressure too? Honestly… I’m not sure I’m seeing that pressure, or discussion like you referenced. Maybe the jikookers I follow are just exceptionally respectful, lol, but for the most part I see people understanding and accepting that we may never get confirmation of this relationship, and that honestly, we aren’t owed it. For the most part, jikookers (again, the ones I follow and interact with) are a respectful bunch who tend to have a fairly firm grasp of realistic expectations and cultural nuance.

You mentioned “losing respect for them”… like, if they don’t come out? I’m not sure what you’re referencing but I agree with you that it would be wild to lose respect for them over that. They are their own people and like you said they owe us nothing when it comes to their personal life choices.

You seem passionate about this and you didn’t ask for my advice but I’m going to offer it unsolicited anyways, so feel free to disregard: if there are shippers you follow who say disrespectful things like this about the guys or imply that Jimin and Jung Kook OR Yoongi need to “hurry up and come out” or something, I would say remove those people from your fandom experience. Unfollow, block, move on. There are times where it is necessary to consume content that is upsetting — like in the case of certain news/ world events or when we have to acknowledge injustice, etc. But I would argue that it is almost never necessary to consume upsetting content in a shipping space 😅 (editing this to add that I totally get the desire to argue against dumb opinions or behaviors and in fact will often engage with people on here to do just that — so I also encourage you to respectfully disagree with those people who have unrealistic expectations when and if you feel so inclined to do so. Just, you know. Manage your energy and space.)

In terms of the pressure for public figures to come out, @jikook-married made a great post about this recently that addresses the problems with that kind of thinking, I think you should give it a read if you haven’t already (it’s not letting me link her direct post for some reason so I’m linking my reblog of it):

Idk if JK & JM live under 1 roof most of the time, there isn’t really evidence to say either way,, but what I do see is that bright smile of JKs every time he sees JM comment on one of his lives. That complication video of the 3/4 times he sees JMs name is so cute. He never looks happier than when he sees JMs comments — so regardless of living situations/speculations etc, he is clearly very happy to see him ever time :-)

Lol right. They just don’t act like exes. Like if they are…. One of them is trying hard to rekindle 😅 and if they’re not exes and not together… it’s only a matter of time 🤷‍♀️

Lol @ people who think he’s straight cause of his vibes.

Though TO BE FAIR;

Maybe he’s just Troy Bolton.

But let’s be honest. JK’s jazz hands involve significantly less angst than Troy’s did. Almost like he… likes doing them 👐✨💖

➛ permission to dance | jungkook

Can we all appreciate a clingy Jimin.

🤗

🎀✨The prettiest, and he knows it. ✨🎀

everything about him is so pretty ♡ (trans. cr. jjk_times and bts-trans)

Lol, the fact that he spent so much effort making Jimin’s tiny and cute. 🤣 Jung Kook: the only person who is even more endeared by Jimin than ARMY. And he really doesn’t miss an opportunity to tell us, either.

Also this is just a perfect representation of his relationships with them and I love it. Also I think it’s pretty clear that in an alternate universe he absolutely would climb Namjoon like a tree and he can’t stop the Freudian slips that keep suggesting that.

Anyways I love him bye ✌️

P.S. do Korean snowmen only have one body piece? That seems like much more work. Was JK taking liberties? What’s happening?? I am American and the standard here is almost always a 3-piece snowperson. Someone explain please thank you bye 😘

jungkook drawing the members as snowman 😆 

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