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Hi, Hi! I Just Wanted To Thank You For Your Blog. Not Only You Actually, Most Proship Tumblr I Follow,

Hi, hi! I just wanted to thank you for your blog. Not only you actually, most proship Tumblr I follow, but I feel very emotional right now so you're getting the thanks haha. I've been feeling guilty about an oc incest ship recently, I've never been that attached to a ship nor into incest but I keep turning The Suffering and The Horny all over in my head. It's reassuring to ground myself in reality and reaffirm that it doesn't make me disgusting. I just have 'ugly' feelings to process. And I don't even need that justification. I mean I've been a Sebaciel shipper since I was a pre-teen but before my current incest ship I've never felt guilt or a need to justify it tbh. It's getting long and rambly but thank you. And fuck thought police.

I do what I do for people like you.

But, really. Its actually pretty common to feel guilt or anxiety about your relationship with fiction or something you're consuming in regards to fiction, and I promise you its normal.

The best thing you can do is what you are; understand and affirm that fiction is encapsulated from reality and it does not reflect who you are or what you uphold. Painting a dead body does not mean I killed someone.

Fictional incest does not equate to a real life crime nor possess a victim.

Sometimes, fiction can even help us to process our thoughts and feelings more than reality ever could. Sometimes its easier to tell a blank piece of paper your feelings than it is to tell a real person. Sometimes it takes us reading someone else's fiction to understand or learn something about our own reality.

In the iconic words of the most shagalicious agent; its all groovin', baby.

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1 year ago

"READ MY DNI" no. use your block button like an adult. i'm not scrolling through the many-paragraphs-long pinned posts of every blog i reblog something from. if you insist certain types of people aren't welcome in the notes of your posts then it's your responsibility to curate that. or choose a closed social media platform like facebook or instagram. or go and live in a barn away from humanity if you really don't like sharing the world with people who are different from you


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1 year ago

"Someone had a good point so I'm gonna make a snarky not-response and ignore it."

I feel like people forget incest victims exist in real life and you may not want to make your incest fan content extremely public with zero filter. A lot of people treat incest as a joke but it's actually so fucked up because family is who you're told to trust so the level of betrayal and disgust is unimaginable. I hope I made someone feel guilty with this post 👍


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1 year ago

Don't you just love how people physically can't not cycle things back to pedophilia as some kind of gotcha net? I'm so tired of it. Its not a sick burn its a sad, tired old donkey trudging its last steps toward death.

The discussion was:

"Incest is disgusting and you should tag it."

"I agree (on the tagging part), but also, small creators actually tag things more than mainstream media, so I'm curious, do you just go after small creators or are you pushing mainstream media to follow the same respectful rules?"

"I'm not reading that."

"You mean you don't and I'm right."

"You're a pedophile blog."

Maybe. Y'know. Not all conversations are about pedophilia? Like at all? I was genuinely asking. Because my point still stands. You'll find more warnings on AO3 than you ever will in Hollywood.

Normalisation of warnings in mainstream media would promote warnings in fan and small creator spaces. I've been exposed to far, far more by movies and tv shows than I ever have fanfiction and fanart.


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1 year ago

If you're going to reblog a post of mine with a bullshit claim and try to spin a false narrative, at least have the guts not to block me immediately afterwards I can't correct you. You said what you said, babygirl, own up to it. Unless you're scared I will correct you. In which case, you shouldn't have made that reply in the first place.


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1 year ago

Well, no.

Thought "crimes", quite literally, aren't real. You cannot prosecute someone for thinking something. If I think about murder, I cannot be tried and condemned as a murderer. If I think about overthrowing the government, I cannot be put in prison for treason.

This is because thoughts are not actions. Thoughts do not have a direct reflecting action or consequence. What you're thinking is pure concept and hypothesis until you actually translate it into action.

I can think about murder all I want. If I actually kill someone, hire a hitman, or actively plot to kill someone, those are actions and are what I can be prosecuted for.

So, no. Even in regards to pedophilia, thoughts are not crimes. And that's not 'protecting pedophiles.' That's a literal fact. Now, if said pedophile tries to harm a child or engage with a child inappropriately or any other such action, that is a crime.

That is punishable by law.

See the difference? A little education goes a long way.

"thought crimes aren't real" you are literally protecting pedophiles right now.

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