Retrograde Planets In The Birth Chart

Retrograde Planets in the Birth Chart   ☿ ♀︎ ♂ ♃ ♄ ♅ ♆ ♇

People born with natal retrograde planets can spend more time in self reflection, ensuring that the qualities of the sign have been satisfied on a deeper, more spiritual way. Retrograde planets take a backward step and spend longer in the sign and house. As the Earth passes the planet in orbit it appears to go backward. From the point of view of the horoscope, it does move backwards. Psychologically, this means the planet is going to reverse direction and go back over area it has just crossed. 

~ Born with Mercury retrograde: The lessons are repetitive, the individual must learn one thing through many different ways to ensure nothing has been missed. Evasive recall, can become confused with lived memories and dream memories, and frequent deja vu, can be psychic about unknown details in past events

Reflective, constant conversations with the mind that are not verbalised, trouble grasping new ideas, uncomfortable in academic settings, slow processing of information, takes time to respond, shy, self conscious about communication, self critical, may have dyslexia or unique learning abilities and challenges

~ Born with Venus retrograde: Willingly performs for an audience of no one, can be shy or reticent to share artwork and creative talent, can be very skilled at acting because they know how to go into another mode of identity expression. May have trouble identifying with their femininity 

Take a lot of responsibility for other people. Understand the complexities of relationships and approach them with respect and dignity. May feel like they meet the same person over and over again, lovers can become enemies or enemies can become lovers. Items frequently go missing and return in strange ways.

~ Born with Mars retrograde: Takes time out to harvest the identity, authentic viewpoints, and resources, uses socialisation to test its validity and usefulness

Represses bouts of anger, difficulty finding passion, sexually compulsive and ritualistic, rage turns inward - at the self, misplaced fury. May have trouble identifying with their masculine or diurnal qualities 

~ Born with Jupiter retrograde: The quest for meaning, universal truth and intimacy is undertaken on a private, imaginative, and internal holy expedition. Has long bouts of fortune and misfortune that follows the same, strokes of luck can be deceiving, or the future can promise more than it can achieve

Learns best in solitude, can retreat into a very sacred and safe place inside where the noise of the world is silenced and they can bask in the higher mind landscape of the inner Prophetess. A concealed orb of light and wisdom

~ Born with Saturn retrograde: There can be conflict between conditioned and societal expectations and the individual’s authentic values, passion, and calling. The work they do in life must have meaning and reflect inner values 

Wrestles with Feelings of inferiority, need for security and safety, weak or absent father figure. May resist reflecting on their lives due to the shame or distress at the perceived lack of achievements 

~ Born with Uranus retrograde:  May prefer to conduct widespread connectivity through seclusive and non-invasive ways such as through internet. Strange and stranger psychic radar - usually has a stronger intuition with people further away than close friends and family

Rebellion against their own selves and the conditions they were born into, Hibernates into a ‘rut’ of the same scene, work, place in periods of autopilot until a lightning desire to change everything hits so hard and fast it’s impossible to deny, suddenly the whole place is static and the mind cannot stand to be in the same surroundings 

~ Born with Neptune retrograde:  Can have dreams, memories, or visions that belong to a past life, longs to help but doesn’t know how, repetitive dreams, self-sacrificial and solitary. Can have a habit of betraying intuition or bottling inspiration, the creative energy is there but they may feel ‘too tired’ to tap into it, when they do, the flow is limitless 

~ Born with Pluto retrograde: Faces the same recurring fate, can suffer nightmares, can be isolated by the psychic experience, inheritance of ancestral psychic abilities, trauma, psychological illness. 

Repetitive circumstances and encounters that force the person to directly confront the fears obstructing the path, they are constantly re-directed back onto their spiritual path and destiny, so it can feel like continual rejection, or everything gets taken from them when it’s a realignment of material with spiritual  

Cherry

my natal chart that i should’ve included in my first few posts

random astrology thoughts

there are certain sun/moon combinations that manage to attribute the sun sign an almost magnetic aura. this isn’t a strictly scorpio(ascendent) thing, but scorpio moons do tend to radiate the most powerfully

leo, aquarius and libra have very peculiar habits when it comes to parenthood, to the point they might make things harder for themselves and others by just ‘minding their business’

virgo rising is quite the chameleon. they assume whatever influences surrounds them and channels them into a thriving force

sun square pluto is a harsh, daunting aspect. it’s often associated with death, with many famous people that had it dying abruptly. but it might also be a tool if used properly. the individual remains forever bond to the thin veil between the worlds

sagittarius aspects are fun, yet they easily make one insensitive/arrogant in regards of the things associated with the house/planet they occupy

virgo moons have a tendecy towards handling their insecurities in unhealthy ways. especially if the individual has an air sun/over influence in their chart it will be hard for them to divide themselves from the hurt

the 9th house is like the magician card of tarot. no matter what it touches, it spreads unpredictability and some sort of day to day magic

i don’t know if it’s just my experience, but people with water suns/risings do tend to be the ones having blue eyes amongst a crowd

meanwhile, strongly influenced earth individuals have something veiny or tree-like about them. it’s not that they’re all especially tall/sturdy, but kind of firm-skinned if it makes any sence

negative capricorn aspects in a chart usually means that the person subconsciously refuses to change for the better, or is stuborn to accept faults in their ways when it comes to the respective placement

if i had to choose two signs that had least in common, it’d be aries and gemini. at first sight there might be some similarities, but if analyzed throughly, they hold two very different sets of principles and motivations

The Moon; Showing Love/Needing Love

 The Moon is a vital component to our personalities. It can show us how we go about showing love for others (and ourselves) and in what aspects we need love. Within the birth chart, positive interchanges between the Moon and personal planets can demonstrate a healthy and developed Moon sign; this is especially true with positive interchanges to Venus. These individuals hold special value in showing love and comfort for others and themselves. We can see a similar outcome in synastry charts when one individual’s Moon has positive interchanges with the other person’s Sun, Moon, or Venus. A positive interchange between one person’s Sun and another person’s Moon demonstrates the most natural compatibility two people could have. These relationships often have the most ease because one individual’s core or character (Sun) aids and uplifts the other’s needs (Moon). Similarly, compatibility between two Moons represents ease in a relationship as two people share like-minded needs; Positive Moon and Venus interchanges in synastry demonstrate ease in understanding and fulfilling another person’s needs.

Aries Moon

How they show love: An Aries’ innate curiosity is their not-so-subtle way of demonstrating love. Aries will go out of their way to spend time with the people they love and actively display interest in them. They can be very passionate and excitable around those they love, like every friend or loved one is another log in their firepit. Aries can also frustratingly push for activity with their loved ones, such as new experiences. They are very impatient and forceful towards the people they care about, but it is simply because they’d love to see them on the same level of hype as they are. Aries’ also demonstrate their love by confidence boosting or role modeling their energy.

What they need: Aries really need patience from others to feel loved and understood; they know they can be frustrating, but they will appreciate those who bare with them. They also really need someone to match their energy or someone to validate their energy; someone to riot with, or someone who is willing to understand their riot. Calming an Aries storm is a plus in their world too.

Taurus Moon

How they show love: A Taurus’ love language tend to fall in line with physical touch and specific acts of service. While physical touch is more obvious (hugs, kisses, cuddles, etc.), acts of service tends to play out in a very background kind of way. Taurus Moon individual’s can quietly carry an entire family’s burden on their backs and be a sanctuary of security and comfort. All who they love the dearest is their babies in their mind. They go out of their way to nurture the emotional well-being of others. In their network of love, they work the hardest and serve their own plate last.

What they need: Physical touch and outlets to relax. The fixed signs, such as Taurus, are guilty of holding onto emotional tension which then turns into physical tension. They need to be shown that they too can be cradled into someone’s arms and melt away. Taurus love massages, dedicated time to rest, and having some of the workload taken off of them. Good food doesn’t hurt also!

Gemini Moon

How they show love: Geminis are the spending quality time type. They can ease away tensions and anxieties with their ability to distract. Gemini Moons have an abundant presence, so while they can lead conversations, they can also direct comfortable silences too. They are great at reading the room and they are perceptive of the technicalities of others needs. With their cooled approach, they will rationalize and come up with creative ways to aid these needs. Their mental toolbox is chalked-full of ideas; “maybe you need to look at it from this perspective,” “I have just the movie for this,” “let’s go for a walk and talk it out!”

What they need: Their chilled exterior can often hide lots of inner anxieties. They really need someone to listen to their tangents. They also really need someone to tell them not to over rationalize their feelings, “you’re just feeling like this, there doesn’t need to be a because, and that’s okay.” They need people to spend their abundant, emotional energies with; vent about it, joke about it, etc.

Cancer Moon

How they show love: Cancers are very protective of their emotional world, so opening that world up to someone is their way of demonstrating love. Emotional vulnerability portrays their deepest act of sincerity. A Cancer’s innate mothering qualities is another way they demonstrate love. They want to create security for their loved ones as well as encourage personal growth. They reassure loved ones directly that their love is unconditional and uncircumstantial. Cancers are very sentimental about physical togetherness, so quality face-to-face time is an important aspect to how they show love.

What they need: Cancers need that natural nurturing quality returned. As much as they want to create security and comfort for their loved ones, they too need others to shield for them. Cancers need to be shown that they are safe; one can do this by dedicating time spent with a Cancer, perhaps inviting them over to your home or spending time at home in a familiar environment. 

Leo Moon

How they show love: Leos are known for praise and thoughtfulness. Leos like showing love through acknowledging others accomplishments that have been forgotten or overlooked. Leos are great at figuring out what is important to others and demonstrating praise, approval, and confidence building language. Leos can also be very thoughtful; they aren’t the “gift-giving” type, though when they find things that remind them of their dearest companions and loved ones, they will go out of their way to give gifts with special meaning. Similar to how a cat chooses whose lap to curl up in, Leos also show love by making one feel “chosen.”

What they need: Leos need verbal and physical praise. Leos find themselves in situations of self-doubt when without reminders of affirmation. Compliments, advice, pats on the back, and encouragement are a few ways to demonstrate affirmation. When in doubt though, a long hug goes a long way with Leos. 

Virgo Moon

How they show love: Virgos choose their words carefully and eloquently and this is how we can acknowledge their way of showing love. Though they are not one of the outright expressive Moon signs such as Cancer, they’ll know exactly what to say or write to make someone feel loved. Though cliché for a Virgo, acts of service is also their way of demonstrating care. They don’t mind doing the small things just to make someone’s life a little easier. Virgos also love leaving things better than when they first found them; physical improvements equate to mental improvements. Virgos also have a tendency of checking in with their loved ones; “have you eaten the right food today?,” “a shower might make you feel better,” “did you get enough fresh air today?,” etc.

What they need: Virgos need acknowledgement that they are doing enough. There is a major tendency towards inadequacy and guilt when they feel like they aren’t doing the right things or enough things. Virgos need reminders of what they’ve accomplished and improvements they’ve made thus far. Remedy their nerves with tea and quality time; nothing can make a Virgo feel more loved than showing them life can be simple.

Libra Moon

How they show love: Libras really set aside their own emotional needs for others; they would much rather please others than have to deal with their emotional world. They graciously give and bend their energy to their loved ones to promote harmony and contentment in their lives; “how can I make them feel comfortable?,” “how can I make them feel wanted?,” how can I make them feel luxurious?” They can be zealous in their efforts to beautify the world around their loved ones. Libras are absolutely the gift-giving type and they don’t need an occasion for it either. They enjoy surprising their loved ones and spoiling them when they can. 

What they need: Libras need to see gratitude for their efforts. Libra Moons live in an emotional world best described as “I don’t know,” so words of affirmation from their loved ones is very important. They also genuinely like hearing what you want from them as they are eager to please. Give Libras decisiveness and they will feel loved. 

Scorpio Moon

How they show love: A Scorpio demonstrates love with extreme obviousness and intensity. Their love is the smothering kind. Since Scorpios like control over their emotional world, the love they give, and the love they recieve, they use many modes of love languages. Physical and emotional intensity are the most obvious. They have an aggressive neediness for their loved ones; if they need you, they won’t beat around the bush about it, they will go and get you. Scorpios demonstrate the peak of their love when they reveal secrets and create or bond over a secret with another. 

What they need: Scorpios really need vulnerability from others. A lot of that “control-freak” persona Scorpio holds is from fear. By actively creating an environment of trust for them, they will feel loved and like they have a special bond. Scorpios really need emotional intimacy. Scorpios can also feel loved by others who give them a sense of purpose. 

Sagittarius Moon

How they show love: Sagittarius’ best demonstrate love through offering experiences. New experiences, trips, and special outings are a few ways Sagis’ try to ignite the light in another’s eyes. They acknowledge the special bonds formed through experiences or shared learnings. Sagittarius’ will go out of there way to place that booking, whether it be a concert, a campsite, hotel, or a niche workshop. Don’t feel like leaving the house? Sagis’ can get pretty creative around the house too; crafting, new recipes to try, documentaries to stream, new hobbies to take up. Honestly, don’t even be surprised if your Sagittarius brings home a tattoo gun one day. Sagittarius’ love through excitement.

What they need: Sagittarius’ really need mutual excitement and enthusiasm. They find comfort in those who truly listen to their philosophies and laugh at their jokes. Sagittarius’ really need to feel like they are a part of something, so family-like networks are also very important to their well-being despite being considered one of the more “flighty” or independent signs. An ear from many can make a Sagi’ feel truly loved.

Capricorn Moon

How they show love: Capricorns are not always direct in expressing love, but you can really tell one loves you when you are including in their life plans and goals. Capricorns have an innate need to control, so they often express love through being a providing or protective figure in their loved one’s lives. They provide a backbone or structure to their loved ones that would be extremely noticeable if they weren’t around. Capricorns also tend to provide guidance and mentorship to demonstrate care. Capricorns can be quite stingy as well, so if one spends their money on you, it says a lot!

What they need: They need people who can show them the more direct and vulnerable forms of love. They really need intense physical and emotional care; those who can introduce them to these realms of love. Saturn energy can make a person very structured and rigid so they need a good dose of warmth in their life to feel loved.

Aquarius Moon

How they show love: Without trines or sextiles, Aquarius’ showing love can be very subtle, hence why this placement is infamously known for being “unemotional.” However, Aquarius’ are fantastic lovers; they often demonstrate love through validation. Aquarius’ have a keen idea of what it’s like to be misunderstood so they’re the ones who are best at making others feel like they’re not a black sheep. They have a “being weird is okay” mentality when the focus isn’t on themselves, so if an Aquarius validates your off-beatness, it most definitely means they love you.

What they need: Aquarius’ really need validation in return for the validation they’re known for giving. Relatability is one way of demonstrating validity. Similar to Taurus and the other Fixed signs, their emotional tension leads to physical crystallization. Creating outlets to release their emotional tension as well as physical touch to aid the built-up tension are two of Aquarius’ biggest needs.

Pisces Moon

How they show love: Pisces have a large capacity to love and they demonstrate this through empathy and their fully immersed listening. They want to help their loved ones through giving advice, relating, or just lending their ear. Pisces are sensitive and openly vulnerable about how they are feelings and this is in hopes that others will relate and connect to them through this. Pisces are always the ones to step into the uncharted territories of the emotional world, leading others behind them; comforting, helping, teaching. 

What they need: Pisces really need guidance and clarity. They feel loved when someone is guiding them and giving them definitive truth to how they are feeling. Pisces can often get mixed up about their own feelings, so the ones who really look out for them, Pisces will remember and cherish. Those who show a willingness to connect also make Pisces feel loved; Pisces would absolutely be enthralled by a nap buddy or meditation partner.

Lilith in the Houses

From the book “Lilith—the challenge of sinking in the abyss of self”, written by the Romanian author and astrologer, “Minerva”

Lilith in 1st house~Restrain

When Lilith conjuncts the Ascendant, it means that the native is a dinamic, warm and natural leader that induce a sentimentally verbal synchronicity which the society wants. They’re extremely popular, but not always trustable.

A tight conjunction with the Ascendant it’s a real gastronomic bypass for women, fact that happens when Lilith conjuncts the Descendant. Still in this conjunction we find the rejection of the own child when he reaches the adult age, that feels betrayed by the parent with this Lilith position. The child wants to be better than his parent, but is usually left as his shadow.

The complexes related to the physical body; the native does a lot to compensate the shortcomings. Manifests a social incomodity or lives with a invisibility complex, but also fakes their experiences. As a palliative to this interposition, Lilith in 1st house is usually a source of memorable quotes. The wisdom is expressed attractively, and people remember it even years after the native has died.

The disadvantage of Lilith when conjuncting the Ascendant is that they are usually born as leaders and pleasant, at least admired, but always trusted. They are recognized as leaders, even tho they aren’t always to be trusted.

They mind a lot their physical body and their permanent changes, like plastic surgeries. It’s funny that Lilith is always giving the native part of her appearance.

Some astrologers describe this position as an endless force of personal identity. The natives feel humiliated and shocked by others’ personality. The stereotype is one of an introvert that tries to find an escape through their way of expressing themselves, through something that makes him different. Sometimes, the native finds all kinds of ways to be noticed.

The natives feel, justified, subapreciated or out of control to problems. In consequence, some will falsify themselves. They need a lot of energy and effort for every appearance, just so they will not feel unattractive while they are with others. The female natives will spend thousands of dollars for esthetic corrections.

Lilith in 1st house knows how important is to manipulate someone’s appearance, while the 11th house would see this as something fake, a dependancy for the approval of the entourage.

Lilith in 1st house will bring intense passions; they have a hidden purpose related to the depths of the unconscious mind, in that box of Pandora.

The native has extreme emotions, sometimes violent. Lilith is anyway a rebel and will always engage in a fight with the patriarchal authorities. Especially in a feminine theme, this fact can mean huge difficulties and conflicts with the father.

Deep connection with mystery, occultism, acknowledging nature's hidden rules.

The native is invited to study the myth of Lilith and to reflect on her implications.

Lilith in 2nd house~The genius, the sinner, the psychopath and the Saint

Possible issues with the mental health when they hit old age.

Ambiguous morality— if the native doesn’t have a set of solid fundamental stocks. Some natives will immediately realize those moral errors.

Remarkable esthetic taste and a extraordinary power to discern the bad from the good, to select what is beneficial for them from what can harm them.

Talent for art, occasionally for design.

Corporal issues: tasteless diets, weight gaining, alimentary issues.

The moral censor of others can be disproportionated, and through the natives is concentrated an inequitable projection.

A second chance in a career— if they submit enough effort for it.

They have a business instinct and entrepreneurship spirit; rarely spend their life in poverty.

Intense focus and spartanic behavior in extreme types of winning they sometimes correspond the definition of the functional psychopath.

Lilith in 3rd house~The challenge of communication

Communicator chameleon: the mean liar, the witch, the charismatic, the intelligent. Knows for saying something and doing something else.

Strong personality: living silver, curious and inventive. The 3rd house also represents the mentality, so the qualities of Lilith will be a very important part of the personality. Sometimes, Lilith can literally monopolize the native’s mind, leading to mental illnesses or atypical mental functions.

Lilith affects the siblings: either a big number of brothers (Tenzin Gyatso, the 5th Dalai Lama) either the death of one brother. There is an alike personality between the siblings.

The loss of custody of the children: the child is taken from the parent or the 3rd parent of the family has his children taken away from him, different aspect than Lilith in 4th house.

Occasionally, Lilith is like a marker for the death of the children (more common if it’s in a tight conjunction with a planet or fixed star) (Jackie Kennedy had a little child that died in 1963. She had Lilith in a partial aspect, in conjunction with the fixed star Altair in the first degree of Aquarius

Lilith can influence the voice. Some natives have incredible voices (Susan Boyle, Barbra Streisand). There are plenty of singers and dancers with Lilith in 3rd house (Britney Spears, Courtney Love).

Lilith here is very strong in childhood, teen hood, and adult hood. A strong Lilith in 3rd house can drag the child out of his normal state, and the payment will come off before the age of 25.

Ca bring a mental illness diagnosed in early teen years.

Can bring a lot of premature deaths or assassinated family members.

Sometimes, as children, they enjoy the trust that their families leave them. They can do what they want and how they want.

They like orgies; here we see the swingers.

They are rebellious, they don’t bow down when they’re young

Lilith in 4th house~Unexpected Changes

Hard childhood.

Rejected by one parent.

Abandoned by one parent, divorced or dead.

Family in which are spoken two languages.

Altered poverty-richness.

Death of one child, a parent or sibling, sometimes of all three, in unusual ways (weird accidents, murdered, fires, etc).

The native spends a lot of time with his coworkers.

The house and family become a sanctuary in adulthood. The creativity of the native is remarked.

Manifests deattachment; Aquarius temperament.

Usually, divorces.

Men with Lilith in 4th house are fascinated with the opposite sex; women find them extraordinary attaractive, magnetics. They are real womanizers. The transit of Lilith should be checked every year.

The contrast between Lilith in 4th house and Lilith in 10th house is fantastic: Lilith in 10th house gives the native an agile body, but also the gift of elegant manipulation, to act fluid and manipulative. Normally, those natives are gymnasts and born dancers. Lilith in 4th house gives the native a silver tongue, the gift of oratory, the capacity to manipulate through communication (interlops, politicians, writers, actors, lawyers)

They need intimacy, not family.

Chronic Depression in adulthood, gained from the natural deattachment, because Lilith will bring the native maturity. They are very important to their family, especially if one of the parents has an illness; they will be there to support them and they will love them unconditionally.

Lilith in 4th house shows a high place in a career, especially at mid-age.

Lilith in 5th house~From Heaven to Hell and back

Abnormal luck at least once: the native escaped guaranteed death, he gets unexpected legacies, unknown sponsors.

The woman with this position is extremely powerful: seductive, luxury prostitute, porn actress, business woman. The position tho can bring the loss of femininity.

Trust issues, suspicion and paranoia take part of those natives’ personality. They can have though an open ruling style, close to the employees.

The adoption of a child considered the black sheep of the family— because, himself, the native was the same and he understands him very well.

Accusations of faking, lying, gossiping for starting a fight.

Luck for artists and writers.

The native is very good at coordinating divertissement games because himself is a very good player.

The way they look is important; the natives—women and men— follow this religiously.

Some of them are experts at whist, poker, Black Jack, chess, sport

They have deep fears about childbirth or hating their own child.

Lilith in 6th house~Work and Health

Lilith in 6th house suggests workaholics. That’s the hardest position of Lilith.

Extraordinary powerful talent for self-containing.

The native can be a very good ruler if he has the chance. A typical model is the business man, that practices sports or that likes to travel around the world; films the tour, that can always turn into a movie. Will present it to a cinematograph, or will sell it in a fair, How Spielberg did when he was 16.

Some natives have a lot of issues in work, because here Lilith is a form changer, so the natives sweat a lot until they finish. If they get bored, they will change their position or even profession.

The natives begin to work since young age and don’t waste time when they are retired.

Have a very special patience, which others might find boring.

The native might like to have sex with the employees; there are normal cases in which the patrons will choose a young secretary and attractive having this reason.

Some natives were hurt or rejected by their professors. They are most likely from all of the houses to commit suicide when they are still children, or to kill their parents or grandparents

Lilith in 7th house~Searching for the perfect relationship

As close as Lilith is to th cusps of the angular houses, the more she’ll be more fascinating and will flirt more with the opposite sex. In a conserving society, a woman with this placement will be seen as a prostitute because of the fascination she generates, even if she isn’t sexually promiscuous (see Maria Magdalena).

The native either becomes Lilith, either searches a lifetime partner that will be Lilith for him; this position is destined to ruin relationships and marriage, as in the cases of young wives of old rich men that divorced.

The denial of sharing resources with others: 7th house energy is the natural energy of Venus. She will manipulate others with the best intentions, getting to see the interior light as something enjoyable. Lilith in 7th house attracts people that have lilithian qualities: strong passions and emotions, rebel nature, disgust related to the paternal domination.

The native with this position is preoccupied with relationships and marriage, even tho in the horoscope, Libra’s characteristics are limited. We know she’s the ruler of the 7th house.

The woman with Lilith in 7th house will get an independent, strong willed husband, and she will need need a little bit of independence in the marriage.

Eve and Lilith seem to be in war in 7th house, but it’s not how it seems. The woman with Lilith in 7th house wants to be a wife, and her friends will suggest her to focus on marriage as a core of her identity, with the condition to not make any mistake. From this position, Lilith is focusing on her advantages.

Lilith in 8th house~Occult Elites

Natives are fixed/obsessed with something, like someone, a position, a job, a need, a dream. They are very ambitious and hardworking.

Confidentiality is very important to those natives! They need loyal friends, if you aren’t, get lost.

Men, but also women can become sexual symbols. Women are usually very beautiful, and both sexes project a hypnotic seduction over the world.

Some of the men had experienced at least once in life situations that are the type “Live or die”: a career is ending or life and death are in “the game”.

In high school years, the native usually has a very small group of friends. It’s a small group because the native is not trusting everyone. The ambition and devotion related to work and related to extracurricular interests are manifested early, and the native will only give time to the ones like him.

Men with Lilith in 8th house are charismatic, which varies from one distinct factor to another.

Lilith in 9th house~Overcoming limits

Natives want to overcome their limits.

They have revolutionary ideas; they aren’t interested in power only for their own self. They can change the form of an ideology or of an industry.

Give up on academically studies because they don’t bring anything better than what they already know, so they get bored, they aren’t motivated anymore to continue when there are better things to do—a real problem for young people that need a diploma and don’t have better options.

They have extremely sharp instincts and a very intelligent intuition when discussing about asociating humans and objects.

The tendency to meet a lot of Liliths while traveling.

Women tend to marry older men, eventually rich. Here we find the type of woman that will marry her boss. Women with Lilith here are naturally drawn to men that can act like a guru and can help them in a career.

An impressive number of women that have this placement either don’t marry after the first divorce, either they don’t marry at all.

Lilith in 10th house~Changing the professional paradigm

The native experience a somehow envy and an eventual marginalizing in their career. Maybe they need to be aware of his colleges that may play the role of Adam and Eve.

The native can easily manipulate others to help their career or use it in the creating process.

The capacity of Lilith to changing fluid forms appears as a distinctive quality for the atletism, but also for dancing, needing power by being their own master. This makes sense when we see the natural energy of the Capricorn and Saturn as 10th house’s rulers. The astrologist Lynn Koiner noticed that Lilith is fine in the Saturnian structures and that, here, Lilith’s quality can bloom here as a form of intelligence.

Lilith in 10th house is not easy to be fooled and knows how to respond to almost all the situations.

A big potential of independence and originality.

With a profound potential of originality, the native will bloom in creative occupations, in case that the originality becomes an advantage, not a handicap.

Because of the Independence, the native will always be in conflict with their boss.

Lilith in 11th house~The Loser

Searching perfection in friendship, that has to make the idealism and reality go together.

The absolutism of Lilith can take the native to be extremely selective and exacting when talking about friends.

There are risks that the native will bond friends by the projection of some inner emotional needs.

Needing absolute perfection.

Native talent and need to bring huge contributions in developing the education of the society in the good of the humanity. This thing can bring a lot of realizations, but the goal that they feel shows the need to cultivate the realism. Sometimes, wishing to give the best, end up giving nothing.

The native is not accepted by a group, especially in youth. He feels excluded most of the time, but not everytime.

Sometimes, he has a strong magnetism at adulthood and enters some groups of people.

Friends can suddenly turn to rivals without any warning.

It’s possible for the native to have a friend that embodies Lilith.

Marrying a friend can bring some advantages, but causes problems.

The native projects huge emotional needs on their friends and they feel betrayed when the friends can’t face the pressure the native is throwing on them.

Lilith in 12th house~The Eve version of Lilith

The native is extremely occupied on the social area.

Varies between a strong interaction with social groups and self-isolation.

The native emphatically helps whenever there is a need, like he wants to lose their identity in this process.

Illusion dreaming. The native loves to flirt and manipulate others, good intended.

They are cool people.

Lilith in 12th house is the opposite of Lilith in 11th house, the natives prefer to be alone and have just a couple of close friends.

It’s said that the name Lilith means nocturnian, so some natives can feel the darkness manifesting in their own personality, but this doesn’t mean they can’t do what they want.

There are a lot of men with this placement that projected an image of “bad boy” and make good money (Brad Pitt, Steven Seagal, Tom Cruise, Eminem).

The 12th House and Its Secrets

The 12th house is a very powerful aspect in your chart. It holds your secrets; what we are secretly attracted to, what our secret self is like, what we fear, and any possible hidden strengths, assuming we overcome our fears. Today I’ll cover fears and secret strengths. You will need to find a full on chart reading site/service to figure out your houses.

Mars in the 12th house: Fears their own anger and the anger of others, their own selfish needs and aggressiveness. Has an association with suppressed or misunderstood sex-drive. Secret Strength: Assertiveness, decisiveness, and possibly most importantly sexual confidence and understanding.

Venus in the 12th house: Fears the intensity in love and can find shame in their materialistic desires. Secret Strength: Self-love without giving into materialistic comforts, ability to dive into powerful relationships. Savvy with materialistic gain.

Mercury in the 12th house: Fears looking dumb or uncultured and is hesitant to share new or taboo ideas. Secret Strength: Knowledge is power for this position! Has good luck with communication, people listen to them.

Moon in the 12th house: Fears expressing their feelings and to show vulnerability and has strained family connections. Secret Strength: Emotional understanding + emotional tenacity. When they use their own vulnerability to grow and help others.

Sun in the 12th house: Fears the limelight and might find shame in too much pride or leadership. Has an interesting association with religion and control. Secret Strength: Overcoming insecurities to lead and inspire. Finding deep meaning to express creativity.

Pluto in the 12th house: Fears their own power, dismisses taboo, dark, or spiritual topics, and fears their own sexuality. Secret Strength: Intuition, emotional strength, and sexual understanding along with coming into their sexual power.

Jupiter in the 12th house: Fears expansion and growth, fears putting themselves out there, fears their own knowledge and ability to teach. Secret Strength: Ability to change and grow freely with their beliefs and ideals. Their ability to spread knowledge confidently.

Saturn in the 12th house: Fears moving on, great success, and breaking away from routine. Secret Strength: Their ambition, work ethic, and adaptability.

Uranus in the 12th house: Could fear change but mostly fears their own individuality, their kinks, and mostly fear of rejection for who they are. Secret Strength: Ability to face change head on and bravery to be their true selves without needing acceptance.

Neptune in the 12th house: Fears expressing their beliefs, could not trust their intuition, and fears connections. Secret Strength: Stands by their beliefs and intuitively knows how to make, mend, and break connections.