Reblog This Post With Pd Coded Songs

reblog this post with pd coded songs

npd culture + chronic illness is forcing yourself to do labor while sick because you dont believe you can be any weaker than you already are but end up in such a bad shape because your delusion has resulted in you being completely bed bound

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NPD culture is DESPISING having friends and avoiding them as much as possible but also wanting attention desperately

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Npd culture is trying to cheer someone up, but they keep blathering about how [bad person] is "such a narcissist",

and now you're given the phantastic choice of swallowing the bullet and dismiss the ableism or defend/educate about what narcissism actually means and run the risk to be the asshole.

Good luck :)))))

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can writers / fandom members please stop uwu-ifying trauma victims?

if your character went through trauma, it doesn’t make them a cute anxious uwu bean. it makes them a trauma victim / survivor. not everyone reacts the same to trauma. yes, people can be anxious or shy after trauma, but that is one of literally countless trauma responses.

characters aren’t gonna forever be defined by their trauma. let them move on and be happy at some point in time. nobody is lingering on their childhood trauma for 100+ years. yes, they can still be affected by it or still think about it every now and then, but not every day is just about their trauma.

you guys will get so pissed when trauma caused narcissistic personality disorder to develop and call that person abusive. you guys will call them abusive, call them slurs, tell them they’re a monster, tell them they only care about themselves.

npd forms off of trauma. it’s not a term you get to throw around at abusive people. npd is a fucking medical disorder and if you call people abusive for having a disorder they couldn’t control, don’t ever talk to me.

if you want to write a character with trauma, do it realistically. trauma victims are not little uwu babies, they can have extreme psychological issues, personality disorders, dissociative disorders or anything else that stems from trauma. they can be more closed off, defensive or act rude to other people because that’s how they learned to survive. they can be more codependent on others and terrified of rejection because they never felt like they had a solid relationship with anybody. they can still be or act normal after going through trauma even if the trauma was life-ruining for somebody else.

stop infantilizing trauma victims.

stop uwu-ifying trauma victims.

acknowledge that other trauma responses exist.

NPD culture is really wanting to kys because this stupid world doesn't deserve you but also really needing to be famous and successful

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