Enthralled-rabbit - Rabbitposting

Apropos getting involved in one’s local kink community, do you have any advice on how to approach it. Here at least it’s mostly old timers and youngsters - which is I find rather concerning - and attending munches I find myself totally out of my depth socially (In part due to the fact.)

I suppose tinder is an option, though, signalling what I’m looking for has so far led to a worse cohort than without the ‘psst I’m a sub’ thing. 🙃

I guess my question comes down to any mistakes to avoid, red flags, how to appropriately vet someone, and the like.

(Also if that happens to come down to ‘mistakes made’ which you’d prefer not to broadcast, by all means pass this over, or maybe PM.)

Gosh these things are especially tough for someone who has never really dated either, but just happened upon kinky people from HS. (*yearns*)

Goodness, I'm sorry, I really don't. Even if we lived in the same sort of area with the same sort of people, this was over 10 years ago. The world is a different place now.

Your struggles are the same as mine were, except I was one of the youngsters.

I could not find a way to build enough trust between me and someone new in time for them to want to be intimate, let alone kinky. My attempts to integrate it too early attracted the wrong type of person for me. I have no advice, only well wishes. 😔

‘If I tell you I like something you hate, I know you’ll love it soon’

You'd look lovely on your knees, looking up at me with a soft gaze. Allowed to take your place beside my desk. Curled up on a plush dog bed. Your leash attached to your collar and loosely wrapped around my fist.

Leisurely, I let your head rest against my thigh. I give you a head pat for being so docile and obedient as you slip into a warm fuzzy frame of mind. Your thoughts dulled at the edges, lulled into a relaxed state. The soft clicks of my keyboard as I work fades to the background. Your only task—to be a nice pretty pup at my feet. Adored, cared for, comfortable.

I'll decide whether I want to use you by the end of the work day or not. Imagining the way your eyes will slip closed. Soothed by the weight and feeling of my thick cock filling your drooly little mouth. Lapping and licking to your hearts content. Tasting my skin, taking in my scent like a good puppy should. No clear goal in mind to make me cum or rush, just pure sensual enjoyment.