Whats The Best Thing About Having A Trad Wife? Coming From A Woman Who Doesnt Get The Appeal Sell It

What’s the best thing about having a trad wife? Coming from a woman who doesn’t get the appeal… sell it to me 🫣

Ooh, I can rant about this for a while! :D

Traditional relationships are firstly founded on stability and commitment. They're not something temporary, they're not something that can be easily thrown away on a whim. This makes it a lot easier to build up a strong, lasting relationship and a good environment to raise children in.

I also think such a relationship is the more natural state of things that we are better suited for. Two people with different skill sets and abilities completing each other instead of competing with each other. Man and woman working together, in their own way, for the betterment of themselves, the other, and their children.

As for specifically having a tradwife from my perspective, it goes thus:

I get to be a protector and a provider. This is not a role that's just given, one has to earn it. And when someday I'm strong enough to be all those things and earn a woman's trust so she may marry me, and submit to me, well... that'd be simply wonderful! I'd feel like I've achieved something great! It's caveman brain - I bring food, shelter, security, my woman brings warmth, cooked food, bears children, makes the house a home, etc.

(For the submission thing, I'd like to briefly say that I think both parties need to submit to the other in their own way for a relationship to be successful. In the interest of this not being a novel, I'll leave it for another time.)

The other big thing is children. I want a lot of children one day, and the logistics of having that and both parents working is not good, to say the least. Especially when you want to raise them well. So, a wife at home to be with them when I'm out is perfect! Of course, the ideal would be both of us being at home, but that's a little difficult to achieve.

The home itself would be better run when there's someone there at the regular. It's not going to be just the place we all gather at the end of the day to sleep in, but it'll be a proper home.

To summarise: protecting, providing, being strong for someone is one of my primary love languages. I think traditional relationships last better, and that they make for a better environment to raise children in.

To explicitly sell it to you - if you find yourself a proper man for the job and he wifes you up, you'll be taken care of, loved, cherished, and appreciated. You'll of course need to give back all those things, that's love. Just because he's the employed one doesn't mean you're not working. But you'll be more fulfilled since you're not working for some corporate overlord who couldn't give half a stomped shit about you - all your efforts will be in service to people you love and care about, your family.

I can write three times as much about all this, but I think this is enough for now, it got pretty long as it is 😅

You ever get that urge to just fuck them against a wall and fill them with your cum? Grunt in their ear too; let them hear what they do to you. Like use and breed them and then pamper them. Just fill them up and then pull them on top of you and hold them. Have them straddle your waist and lay their head on your shoulder. Ahh, the dream

Patriarchy =/= misogyny

Misogyny can be part of patriarchy and can be fun at times, but it's not essential if you want to support patriarchy.

Patriarchy is the natural order of relationship between men and women, supporting it is supporting women. Being pro-patriarchy is being pro-women in the most basic way. What could be more natural and loving than supporting a man leads - woman obeys dynamic?

Wanting your woman to stay at home looking after the house and children is not misogyny

Wanting the head of the house to lead and make the decisions for his family is not misgyny

Obeying his orders because you know he has his family's best interests at heart and trust him, is not misogyny

Giving a woman discipline to help keep her focused and punishing her when she does wrong is keeping the family stable and is not misogyny

Expecting your woman to listen to your guidance and follow your instructions for the optimal running of your home is not misogyny

A woman surrendering her own needs and wants for the betterment of the family and to better focus on his satisfaction is not misogyny

They are all the most loving and supportive things that can happen in a relationship.

Misogyny is hating women, it can be fun to roleplay, but it is not patriarchy.

Those two are definitely not contradictory to one another! Sexual desire bleeds into love and the desire for procreation in a very beautiful way!

Hey! Saw your blog and I get where your coming from. I really want to find a partner who wants to build a traditional family; someone who wants children and wants a family. I want this to be a relationship of love, of trust, and a partnership in every sense. She should have her dreams and goals fulfilled just as I will mine.

However, there is an element of pure lust about it too. I want to get her pregnant multiple times, (would love to have twins happen just for the belly) I want to have that control, I want to breed her. I feel like I would be lying if that isn't basically a kink. What do you think?

Sounds like a pregnancy and breeding kink

A more serious post, will be returning to horniposting shortly o7 (...unless?)