Criticalsexualitytheories - Untitled

Men really just go about life. Hurting women. Not giving a shit. Sleeping sound as fuck while you going to therapy for 4 years. Huh.

I truly despise the aspect of male aggression in sex. The weird as fuck dirty talk yall be doing that no one is into plus other antics….like….Idk how submissive folks deal with men like that yall are troopers putting up with this. 

fuck anyone who says porn/bdsm culture isnt a huge problem- in the last few months, i’ve been choked (hard enough to pop blood vessels in my face), slapped, and scratched hard enough that the marks didn’t disappear for days. All of these things happened on first dates or the first time I went home with a person, and it was always without asking (obviously or i would have told them to fuck off). The closest thing to asking permission that I got was from one guy, who after slapping me across the face asked “was that okay?” 

people argue that hardcore pornography and bdsm fetishes stay in the bedroom, that there’s a difference between violence in porn and violence in reality, but thats bullshit. Men are so okay with (and turned on by) hitting women that they dont even think they have to ask

Those links for all asking Deadly history of women using perfume as poison -Girlhood, medusa and female rage -The allure of gothic horror -Essays and thoughts on girls in horror -Why girls get hungry in horror -Mothers and witches -Women in horror -The female poisoner -female werewolves -Monstrous women - Catherine Lundoff -Female cannibals and consumptive horror -Horror films directed by women -Women, killer plants and annihilation -Female identity within the gothic genre -Women in horror - the vvitch -the vvitch, female sexuality in horror -Angela Carter - The beast is female sexuality -Body horror/monster reading list -Consumptive horror

i fucking hate the way the media creates fake, ridiculous, over the top headlines like ‘people are petitioning for stargender to become a medically recognized sex’ or whatever because literally no one is seriously advocating for that and it completely detracts from the actual issues at hand. like it’s really insidious to direct anger at marginalized groups using sensationalism and lies because it’s so widely believed by the dumb ass audience of those websites/shows/articles. people read that and genuinely think that is what oppressed individuals are fighting for. it’s such a subtle yet very popular way of undermining legitimate problems and i’m noticing it more and and more, especially online, because despite everything it’s still profitable to mock and victimize lgbt people