Yes Its Gay, Now Go Kiss Him Romantically And Full Of Love!

yes its gay, now go kiss him romantically and full of love!

guys quick is it gay to be a boy in love with your little brother /lh

as a disabled POC it is so exhausting to see antis claim TransID is racist and ableist. As someone who has actually experienced those forms of bigotry, and has SEEN actual examples of that shit, seeing antis go 'you want to have my disability? ABLEIST!' or some shit is laughable at best, headache inducing at worst. Even transIDs like literal 'transracism' or 'transnazi' are more often than not someone trying to fucking cope with the deck of cards they were given. And what do antis say to that? 'Oh, you have intrusive thoughts? You're probably lying to excuse your bigotry because I don't have intrusive thoughts like that uwu'. You can't win.

I can't wait for a disabled POC anti to come along and pull more shit out of their ass as to why they hate people who are coping and/or simply existing. Because trust me, it's going to happen; unfortunately there are people who have also experienced actual bigotry but choose to focus on transID people instead. It's really sad, but I don't sympathize that much; I'm a former anti myself, and all I did was get my head out of my ass and bother to listen to the community rather than allowing myself to rot in the echo chamber that is being an anti. It's not that hard, at least it wasn't for me, because if you actually listen to radqueers the things they say actually make sense.

I am asking you to endure it.

your support for people’s trans identities should not bank on whether they are “ able ” to transition or not。

if someone does not have the resources to transition ,

if someone does not have the energy to transition ,

if someone does not want to take the risks of transitioning ,

if someone is scared of transitioning ,

if it is an identity that is “““ biologically ””” or , in some other form , unable to be transitioned to { im looking at you , anti transrace ++ anti transabled ++ anti transage folkel , who commonly use this argument }

they should be supported in their identity regardless。

likewise , if someone wants to transition and it does not nonconsensually harm people ,

they should not be judged。

transabled people developing symptoms , transracial people changing their appearance , etcetera , are not harming people by transitioning。

it is not for you to decide if the way someone transitions is harmful or not , it is not for you to decide if the way someone wants to transition is possible or not。

hey, we are very poor and broke, do you know good places to post about our sugar parent applications being open? we really need money and cant work, this is literally the easiest way for us to survive because our government is failing us lmao (coping humour)

[please reblog for reach this is a serious ask]