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SEX Is Supposed To Be FUN. Don't Do With Sex What We Did With Art.

SEX is supposed to be FUN. Don't do with sex what we did with art.

Dancing, singing, painting is about joy and everyone should partake. Sing a cacophony, dance awkwardly, paint some blobs! Its not for the performance. The point is not to be "good". Having fun is what makes it GOOD.

it’s okay to have clumsy and awkward sex and it’s actually really common

the ability to laugh while you’re lying tangled and naked together bc you realize just how silly something is is really really intimate and trusting, and it’s the best feeling to be like that with someone and to be relaxed

it happens with long-term partners, it happens on hookups, and it’s rarely as bad as it’s always made out to be, except we usually think it’s bad we're told that’s not how sex is supposed to go. but that’s not true. 

it can still be passionate and intimate while being messy and clumsy, absolutely. you don’t need to “perform well.” sex isn’t a show: it’s about feeling good. sometimes it takes experimenting to figure out what feels good, and fumbles and awkward moments and laughter is all just part of it. sometimes that’s a huge part of the fun.

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