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What Are 3 Things You're Grateful For Right Now?
What are 3 things you're grateful for right now?
I'll start: I'm grateful for m&ms, sheets of rain, and the internet ^-^
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Was just informed by my mom that I do in fact have ADHD and the reason I thought I didn’t was because ever since I was seven whenever I got super energetic my mom would have me go chop wood so now when I’m feeling The ADHD I go chop wood and I thought it was just some sort of routine I started when I was little and wanted to blow off steam
Okay I keep seeing posts about trans men with big chests finding bras that work to squish things pretty flat. I wore a 44H cup from Lane Bryant... NOTHING got me flat. Not a single thing made me look less than a DD. That's because I had 13 pounds of tissue on my rib cage that can't compress INTO that rib cage no matter how tight I pulled things. No folding, no layering, no doubling up ever was enough for my bf to even notice the size difference. I spent hundreds trying and every time I would be left sobbing in front of the mirror in garbage that left me suffocated and bulging.
THIS HAPPENS... Not everyone has a success story with binding, and I wish I wish that I had found just one person that had said... Hey, it's never going to work at that size but that's okay. It's not your fault.
It's not because you didn't research. Because you didn't TRY hard enough. Sometimes bodies just don't compress. They aren't meant to.
So... it sucks but you're not alone.
What are 3 things you're grateful for today?
I am grateful for art, for the sun, and for schedulebooks
Oh also self diagnosis is very valid in the autistic community. If you would like to take this official test to help see where you score here it is. This is the actual test they use in the US.
https://embrace-autism.com/raads-r/
Also this is an unofficial one.